First Kiss

[ksk0_0]

Hmm... well so me and this girl have been going out for about a month now. We've both now know we are girl/boyfriend but still haven't kissed, I've been meaning to make the first move on her, but whenever the time comes, I choke and the opportunity just rolls by me. Every time I regret that, "Why didn't I go for it?" Oh and we're both 14.

 

Tomorrow, we are going over to her house to just have fun, rollerblade and watch a movie together, I figure thats the best time to make my move because it'd be only 2 of us there. I've read some of the topics on here, advices and such.

 

The thing I'm wondering is, after you kiss her - then what? just back off or something? stay close and...?

 

Everytime I read whoevers topic and such, give me a little by little boost of confidence, but whenever the time comes, I choke. What could I do?

[wanderer]

i would say don't try to make a point of kissing her. it will happen in time. it's best to plant the first kiss on her when you're both ready for it, otherwise it will get weird. you can certainly use a good oppurtunity to make the move, but don't overplan it.

[EclipseXkim621]

I wish I was 14 again..

 

She is more then likely waiting for you to go in on the move. You're nervous...she's just as nervous...When you are with her, do it when it comes natural, try not too get too nervous -at the moment-. Afterwards...go with the flow, be calm and collective. You'll be fine.

*GOODLUCK*

[fallslikerain]

just relax and go with the flow. Just be careful that if you think she feels uncomfortable you pull away and stop. You always should respect a girls wishes.

 

The less you think(and by think i mean worry) about it the more you'll both probably enjoy it, its just a kiss.

 

As for timing, you just need to wait until the moment feels right to you and your both comfortable, perhaps just as you say goodnight would work, but there are many ways to go about it

 

best of luck! enjoy

[Mun]

I say just kiss her and then after that give her a hug. If she pulls away then let her go. Whatever feels comfortable.. go with it.

 

Good luck

[disguisedpixie]

Aww i remember being that age and waiting for ages for my boyfriend to kiss me, i'd already had my first kiss, but my boyfriend hadn't. What happened was that i kissed him first, just on the lips, nothing big, just a quick kiss. Maybe you should try that. Then kissing just becomes natural afterwards