Me and my new girlfriend!

[Chitchatgirl]

ok.....maybe i should explain that i'm a lesbian. i didnt put this post under the lesbian category becos i didnt think people would want to read it. it is still a relationship after all.

anyway, so i did the most pathetic thing ever, becos i couldnt have handled rejection face to face.

i told her i loved her when we were having a conversation via email a few nights ago. she didnt reject me and she said i was brave in the 1st place for making the first move, no matter how cowardly it was. but i guess that's love. i've never had a girlfriend before. i had a few boyfriends but it was nothing serious. i didn't even know that i was a lesbian until i met her. but im not ashamed of anything! and im posting this so that people knnow that if u feel something, just go ahead and say it!!!

[SpottiOtti]

What is your concern?

[Chitchatgirl]

just that some people wouldnt know what to do, how to confess or arent sure. im trying to help them by sharing experiances

[pl3asehelp]

Did she call you a coward?

[Chitchatgirl]

no she was really nice about it and said that she wouldve done the same, cos both of us are quite shy at the best of times

[SpottiOtti]

Oh, okay. Well, good on you for sharing your feelings! I'd say that as you get older, it should be easier for you to say it face to face. (I had a 30-year old guy tell me he loved me in an email and that was unacceptable. Don't do that when you're 30.

[Chitchatgirl]

dont worry i wont!!!!

thanks for being so nice as im very new to this site so................xxx

and i only confessed thru an email this time becos its wat we talk on nearly every night (neither of us want facebook) and being a lesbian confession, it was a bit...not normal....so yh

[SpottiOtti]

You're so welcome! And welcome to ENA. I think you'll find most people on here are nice too, and really want to help. Good luck with your new relationship, I hope it goes swimmingly!

[Chitchatgirl]

thanks!! i hope so too!