Jake22 Posted November 7, 2004 Share Posted November 7, 2004 Hi, I am 21 and my sex life is crap! I have been with my girl friend for just over one year, she was a virgin when we met, it took a few month before she was ready for sex (I didn't mind waiting) before we had sex I would go down on her, she seemed really embarrassed and didn't really want me to do that to her, she hated the idea of giving me a blow job (that sucked because I really love them) She got to the stage she was ready and we had sex our relation ship went on for a few months, sex was ok tried giving me a b/j a few times but she wasn't so keen on it. We moved in together 7 months after we got together, this is when the sex really went down hill, I spend a lot of time working get really tired and don't really have the urge to have sex anymore, I have turned her down so many times, even when she gives me a blow job I don't really enjoy it, I really don't want her to give me blow jobs (but why? Because I love them) My last girl friend was great in bed and great and giving b/j, and when I think back I think dam I wish she (my ex) could give me one now, we used to get up to so much in bed, but when I think of doing all that with my girl friend I don't really want to, what's wrong with me? I used to love sex, used to want it all the time but now I don't want it at all. Maybe I see her as a friend more than a lover? Sorry for the mumbling Jake Quote Link to comment
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