nightrider Posted November 6, 2004 Share Posted November 6, 2004 okay i have been through very hard time . i am 22 years old and still single i am writing this post just wanna tell you how is it hard to live alone.okay i won't wish anylonger to have gf. if itz my luck i can't change it. i will spend life alone but itz sometimes hurt me. Link to comment
ReadyorNot Posted November 6, 2004 Share Posted November 6, 2004 its hard for me to live today too... I thought about killing myself on my way home from my bf's..... I dont want to live.. I dont want to feel pain.. I dont want to be with anyone but him..... We had a fight, I thought we broke up.. a week later we made up.. today was our second day hanging out since the fight.. it was FANTASTIC!!! He was being SUPER SWEET!!!! PERFECT!!!! He said everything is fine between us.....He told me he was going out later and I was upset.. not saying he couldnt go.. I just said that I thought we would spend the whole day together.. He flipped.. said he gave me enough chances but no more... He ran into his house and slammed the door in my face Link to comment
LuvstuffNStuff Posted November 6, 2004 Share Posted November 6, 2004 You are jumping the gun a litte?? I mean, my god, you are only 22 years old, you have plenty of time to come accross that "right one". Until then, go out and live life to its fullest, you are giving up, before you have even started, and that truthfully is not being honest to who you are as a person. I hope I made some sense, and gave you a different way of looking at things. Never give up, things always get better and work out, you will see Link to comment
ReadyorNot Posted November 7, 2004 Share Posted November 7, 2004 Im 24 (I know you werent talking to me)... Ive met that person... been with him for 4.5 years... Im sure he wont talk to me anymore.. I dont know what to do but I simply can not stand this agony anymore.. Id rather be dead.. .at least I could be with my dad... the one person in my life who NEVER hurt me.... too bad he died before he could protect me from all the bad that I have in my life now... Link to comment
lostyearsofmerlin Posted November 8, 2004 Share Posted November 8, 2004 funkatron im so sorry that the one you loved the most and felt most comfortable with died. I'm really sorry. I am in a time where all my friends are changing and my best friend (a girl) in which i knew for about 7 years as my best friend, doesnt really talk to me or really pay attention to me anymore. I feel for you i kinda know what your going through and i am really sorry. Link to comment
mahlina Posted November 9, 2004 Share Posted November 9, 2004 Hello there Nightrider... My gosh. Don't lose hope! Please don't be so hard on yourself. Yes Mister, you will run into that special someone. It makes me sad to see people say these things. Please don't give up. Just think of it like this: "Save the best for last." Count on your lucky stars. When you meet that lady, you will know. Things will fall into place, and you guys will share a bond like no other. Then, you'll be glad that you waited so long! Just think of yourself as a diamond in the rough, k? Stay strong, and continue on being that nice person that you are. If I can have faith in people like you, then I surely hope that you can have faith in yourself too! Take care. And, remember to smile. You'll run into that special lady when you least expect it. Hang in there! Mahlina Link to comment
lostyearsofmerlin Posted November 12, 2004 Share Posted November 12, 2004 wow mehlina! you are so optimistic its unbelievable. lol i really do hope that i will find that one lucky lady and i hope its that girl thanks mehlina! smilin is hard but worth it Link to comment
nightrider Posted November 17, 2004 Author Share Posted November 17, 2004 thank you so much for your comments i will try to control my feelings but some times i am hut so much Link to comment
Kyoshiro Ogari Posted November 17, 2004 Share Posted November 17, 2004 thank you so much for your comments i will try to control my feelings but some times i am hut so much I'm going to be 32 in a couple of months and I never ever had a girlfriend, except for one in 1st grade. You are too young, you've got your whole life ahead of you. Go out there and make things happen! Link to comment
bat_grrl Posted November 17, 2004 Share Posted November 17, 2004 To those of you saying that you are of a certain age and never had a bf or gf...give it time. I would rather have a true, lasting real relationship than a bunch of mistakes, or ones that meant nothing in the end. Been there done that... Link to comment
Kyoshiro Ogari Posted November 19, 2004 Share Posted November 19, 2004 To those of you saying that you are of a certain age and never had a bf or gf...give it time. I would rather have a true, lasting real relationship than a bunch of mistakes, or ones that meant nothing in the end. Been there done that... What if we don't have much time left? You never know when it's all over, which is why I am extremely anxious to find someone and experience love. Link to comment
bat_grrl Posted November 19, 2004 Share Posted November 19, 2004 You are right, we never know how much time we have left. However, if you seem anxious or desperate, people will pick up on that and it will scare them away. I have been with people like that and I couldn't handle it for long. I have also been that way myself, or let my attachment to someone come off as desperate my my affections for them. It can easily scare someone off. The best way to find someone is to be friends with them first. Don't go "looking for a relationship". when it happens, it will be even better. If you ever need to talk, feel free to PM me, I am on quite often and check my PM's a lot Link to comment
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