I'm her first girlfriend

[iLikeGirlsToo]

My ex and I still like each other . She's just a very shy girl. . I have had sex with other girls already, I have been attracted to girls for a longer time than her. When we text she tells me she does want to have sexual intercourses, But when it comes to us being alone at my house, I'll get close to her and she will just look like she doesn't want me too close to her. I'm confused wether I should get close to her like she tells me to do when we text or should I just stay back because she seems afraid when I get too close to her?

[pl3asehelp]

Maybe she's like you guys to be in a relationship again before having sex, seeing as you've been having sex with other people since you broke up. That's how I would feel.

[Privilege]

Good point, pl3asehelp. OP, whats your/her age? Maybe try just holding her in a non-sexual way, not kissing or anything but just holding her and talking - maybe this will get her to open up about her concerns.