Why is it so easy for the dumpers to a live life without the dumpee?

[Mr_LFA]

Mr_LFA - I agree with you. I think if they're giving you attention, saying they love you, making time for you - but within a few days or weeks time, they suddenly break things off or go distant - someone or something else "more exciting" came into their life, and that's why you're suddenly chopped liver. And if that someone or something doesn't pan out or falls through, then I'm sure that's when you'll hear from them finally.

That's right and I know this first hand, because it has happened to me, this gradual distant drop-off. My first love of three and a half years basically left me for another guy that she went to university with. "Chopped liver" alright! I was in tiny little pieces for months. The rest is history and I'm whole again.