to go or not to go

[Ravens_eternity]

in 2 days is my friend s birth day and my ex's will be there. some what it hurts so much to see her and i'm vary scared for some reason

and i really don't know what to be like around her anymore and i don't know how to be when ppl are around us. i don't know what to feel

so what i'm trying to say is i don't know what to do

do i go to this bday party or not go

like i really still love my ex and still want her back. but i'm so hurt all i can think of is to be cold. cuz i don't want to hurt any more

plz help

[rusty_boi]

well you shouldnt miss out on your friends party because your ex is there i can suggest 2 things tell your ex exactly how you feel and get closure. or find some1 new at the party and spend the night with them.

[ayekasong]

Yikes this is a tough one... I agree that you shouldn't miss out on your friend's party just because of your ex... you might actually end up hurting your friend. If you do go, I'd say stay away from her. If she wants to talk to you she'll come talk to you. But don't go expecting that. I know it hurts, so try to distract yourself by talking with other people. who knows, maybe you'll find someone more interesting than your ex there.

 

If it gets to be too much for you, you can always leave the party. Good luck, I hope others have advice for you too.

[Ravens_eternity]

thanks for reading and helping thanks vary much