sparkler624 Posted October 6, 2004 Share Posted October 6, 2004 Quick question(s) How long were you dating someone before you: 1. Had dry sex (sex, but with clothes still on the lower regions)? 2. Had oral sex, given it and received it? 3. Had actual intercourse? Thanks for any replies! Link to comment
Shinobie Posted October 6, 2004 Share Posted October 6, 2004 wow a month?Isnt that kind of fast wow.... Link to comment
ayekasong Posted October 6, 2004 Share Posted October 6, 2004 Dry sex and given oral... a month or two... received oral... one night Actual intercorse, about 7 months Link to comment
lil_unique_me Posted October 6, 2004 Share Posted October 6, 2004 well thsi is a bit of a short time but its about a week or 2. im not bothered but i really dont like to give or receive oral. Catie xxx Link to comment
if only Posted October 6, 2004 Share Posted October 6, 2004 Shinobie Posted: wow a month?Isnt that kind of fast wow.... We knew each other for a year as very good friends before we got together so no not too fast. If he was a stranger then yes but it really depends on the individuals circumstances and feelings. Link to comment
Day_Walker Posted October 6, 2004 Share Posted October 6, 2004 There really isnt a point in having dry sex. Oral sex up to a month. Intercourse up to 2 months. Link to comment
Meow18 Posted October 6, 2004 Share Posted October 6, 2004 I've only done this kind of stuff with my current boyfriend. Dry sex happened after a year of being together, Oral sex & actual intercourse was about a year and a half into the relationship. Compared to everyone else, it seems as though me & my boyfriend have been moving kind of slow, but thats just when we felt ready. Link to comment
rosalind24 Posted October 6, 2004 Share Posted October 6, 2004 dry sex.. 8 months oral...9 months sex...14 months. ... after I realized dry sex is considered sex in a way too... and after I decided this is the person I'm staying with. Link to comment
Serendipity1607307077 Posted October 6, 2004 Share Posted October 6, 2004 Dry Sex - three weeks Oral Sex - one month Sex Sex - one and a half months Link to comment
Shinobie Posted October 6, 2004 Share Posted October 6, 2004 Wow is today's trend for all you girls nowadays to give urself up super fast.Wow a month and a half??? Holy crap at age 17 too if u been in a lot of relationships i dont wanan know how many different guys u have slept with.Sorry but for guys that are like me i would not want to date your type of girl cause that is a lil too easily given up on my part.Way too fast i think you should do it with someone you truly care about.Iono bout you guys but i truly know that i would not love a girl truly that much for like a year or year and a half depending on how things are going.Whats up with scoiety today it is getting worse?More and more girls are having sex at younger ages and they seem to give it up and have sex way too fast and i see that as a bad thing. Link to comment
shygirl23 Posted October 7, 2004 Share Posted October 7, 2004 I agree with you to an extent, Shinobie. I'm certainly not going to be going much farther in my relationship... at least not until I have a wedding ring on my finger. But, I guess it's not up to me to decide what other couples should do. I don't have a problem with other people moving at a fast pace. I'm only concerned about me and my boyfriend. Anyway... Dry Sex: I'm not sure what constitutes dry sex... I've straddled my boyfriend while we were kissing, but there was no rubbing, humping, etc. So, I guess we haven't yet. Oral Sex: Not yet Sex: Not yet We've been going out for about 6 or 7 months. So... um... None of the above? Link to comment
ayekasong Posted October 7, 2004 Share Posted October 7, 2004 Shinobe, I'll have you know that my decision to have sex with my boyfriend was well thought out. I didn't "just give it up" in fact I agonized over whether I should or not for months. He was my first boyfriend and at 19 we were both incredibly curious because neither of us had done anything. It may have been fast in your opinion, but I don't regret my decision. Link to comment
unnaturally_thin Posted October 7, 2004 Share Posted October 7, 2004 1. Had dry sex (sex, but with clothes still on the lower regions)? ~*~say....1 1/2 weeks before we got together....yes i know....early...way early...~*~ 2. Had oral sex, given it and received it? ~*~received 1 month into relationship........givin 2 months into relationship~*~ 3. Had actual intercourse? ~*~not yet....not ready....don't want kids right now....and not taking any chances~*~ Link to comment
7CardStud Posted October 7, 2004 Share Posted October 7, 2004 Shinobie I know why u can't get a girl now... Your way to blunt man... Anyways... IM STILL WAITING FOR ALL OF THOSE Hah My day will come (no pun intended) Link to comment
Shinobie Posted October 7, 2004 Share Posted October 7, 2004 I dont know what u mean and i dont understand why i cant get a gf because i am such anice guy.Women i talk to online think i deserve a gf as much or more then the next guy because im such a nice person.but o well im unattractive and ignorant to women so gg there Link to comment
sasha505 Posted October 7, 2004 Share Posted October 7, 2004 1. Dry sex - Before we were a couple 2. A week max 3. Same night as oral, so maybe a week if that. Link to comment
sprkal Posted October 7, 2004 Share Posted October 7, 2004 Dry Sex - probably about 2 days Oral Sex - on me, it was about 2 weeks (the night of our first 'date') but on him it was about 2 months - i waited until he had had an STD test SEX - Four months and two days Link to comment
skyteph Posted October 8, 2004 Share Posted October 8, 2004 God Shinobe! =_= You are so lucky I can't swear on enotalone or I'd tell you where you can shove your comment. I'm personally insulted that you have such a double standard! Girls cant loose their virginity by themselves! Although it's hard to get the big picture when you have such a small screen. I've seen so many people like you, but I had to pay admission last time. I'm so offended that you made that comment and basically called our generation of women wh_res. Alot of women plan to loose their virginity with a person they feel comfortable with; they dont just go to a bar and picking up some stranger. Make somebody happy, mind your own business and think about what you say before you go ahead and say it! Now go away or I shall taunt you a second time Link to comment
Serendipity1607307077 Posted October 8, 2004 Share Posted October 8, 2004 This is going to sound weird, but I kinda agree, even though it WAS me that gave myself up after a month and a half. My boyfriend had more experience than me, and though he told me not to rush myself, I felt almost pressured because I thought that if I didn't, I would kinda disappoint him... The good news is we are still together! Link to comment
excelalways Posted October 8, 2004 Share Posted October 8, 2004 1. dry sex...about a month 2. oral, given and received about 2-3 weeks later 3. sex sex...about 2-2 1/2 months... Link to comment
yogaroots Posted October 8, 2004 Share Posted October 8, 2004 im a day trader........a day is tool long to wait if ya ask me Link to comment
Shinobie Posted October 8, 2004 Share Posted October 8, 2004 Iono im sorry if you are offeneded but sheesh some girls having sex in like only 1 month.Isnt it something u should hold back for like a year until you know your relationship is extremely meaningful or even someone your going to marry.Like my friend and his wife married just a week ago.Him and her have been waiting for like the last 2 years almost to get married until they have sex and which they did and finally waited for it.That is where the true meaning comes from i personally think is to cherish it and do it when you truly love someone.Because iono i dont really believe in loving someone after only 1-2 months i think that is too short of a time.I think you have to stretch your relationship out for along time too see if you truly are committed. Link to comment
Shinobie Posted October 8, 2004 Share Posted October 8, 2004 O yah go ahead and ill think of you as a person that wants to cuss me out and put me down or else you get a warning i dont care.You would probably call me some stupid lonely virgin but i dont really care.Go ahead and be a mean person if you are your doing no good too anybody if your like that.I know that although i havent been ina relationship i truly know how things should go as far as love not "0o0o0o0 i luv him and im only 15 lets have sex" o yah thats great....Well iono o well who cares u can call me a loser all u want in the back of your mind if it makes u feel special.I mean what truly is the big deal about sex??????/What makes me such aloser that i am a virgin at age 17!!!!!!!!I mean i shouldnt even be doing these things right now until i have my life straight and its better to do these things with a person u actually love.What makes u so special that you are not a virgin.IS it because your one step closer to getting an std then me cause that sounds great sorry if im such a LOSER for being a virgin thats just me...... Link to comment
rosalind24 Posted October 8, 2004 Share Posted October 8, 2004 well, you're only 17. some of us have one night stands, some of use sleep with people for fun, some of us have buddies with benefits, and some of us wait, some of us wait until marriage, some of us date to have sex... no one's dirtier or cleaner, as long as you play it responsibly and don't get STDs, you're fine. If you want to argue that girls who have sex a month after they start dating are dirty, then you have to think that men who have sex a month after they start dating are equally dirty. I think Iono's just asking you to not have double standards. Link to comment
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