how bad dose it hart for the first time ( you know sex)

[gangsta180]

how bad dose it hart for the first time ( you know sex)

[Tinkerbell]

It depends on the girl...If she's masturbated before or been fingered than it wouldn't hurt AS much, and then there's the case of some girls just being looser down there than others. It also depends on the size of the guy as well, too big is always an ouch. However, if the guy goes nice and slow than it shouldn't be too bad.

[San123]

It didn't hurt me at all the first time, was surprised me because I had heard horror stories about how bad it hurt. I think the reason is because my boyfriend and I did A LOT of foreplay before hand so I wasn't as nervous and I wasn't as dry as some girls are, due to nervousness... It may just depend on the girl though.

[Katie1414]

It depends on the girl...If she's masturbated before or been fingered than it wouldn't hurt AS much, and then there's the case of some girls just being looser down there than others. It also depends on the size of the guy as well, too big is always an ouch. However, if the guy goes nice and slow than it shouldn't be too bad.

 

hey I like your tinkerbell! how do you get pictures in there?

[Tinkerbell]

Katie,

I simply put the url to the animation in my signature with a at the very beginning and a at the very end.

[Katie1414]

Katie,

I simply put the url to the animation in my signature with a at the very beginning and a at the very end.

 

ok thanks

[i_hate_the_world47]

It all depends on the irl.For some it hurts ALOt.For some alittle and for some none.Hopefully your not thinking about having sex soon,because your alittle young.

 

~Meagan~

[mkat]

It hurt me REALLY bad the first time, but I also don't really masterbate and haven't been fingered all that much.

[under_the_pressure]

My first time it hurt really bad. So bad, I told him to stop. And we didn't do anything. Finally I got past the pain and did it and after a few minutes the pain eased up.

 

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[Runnergrl]

It depends on how comfortable you are with the person, how large the male it. It hurt me, but not awful...just new and uncomfortable. It still hurts now at times and I'm not a virgin.

[seza15]

my first time having sex didn't really hurt but felt unusual and a little uncomfortable as i hadn't had anything inside me that was as big as a penis before. it hurt ALOT when i was fingered for the first time. i bled a bit, not heaps but.

 

i really had it stuck in my mind that my first time having sex was going to hurt so much and i was going to bled heaps. a friend of mine that had happened to her and she bled for a day afterwards. it really depends on the individual, amount of foreplay, the partner, etc.

 

there is only one way of finding out for sure what it feels like and that's to experience it yourself (only when EMOTIONALLY you feel ready). any first experience is nerve racking and thats ok. thats all part of the learning loving experience.

[lil kitty]

hey i know this doesn't have to do with your question but i just want to know when do u start feeling good after you have sex for the first time?

[ayekasong]

My first time having sex didn't hurt, it was just slightly uncomfortable. Honestly it was worse to put a tampon in the first time for me. My boyfriend took it very slowly and was very gentle, so it helped a lot.

 

In answer to your question lil kitty, I felt good the first time. But I think for most people it takes a couple of tries before you really start to feel wonderful. My friend told me she didn't feel good until she was able to figure out a rhythm with her partner.

[lil kitty]

thanks ayekasong b/c i am kind of having a prob of not feeling good when i have se with my bf and we have been having sex for quite some time now so i kind of need some tips on how to make me feel good when we have sex.

[Vert]

Ayekasong is right. It's all about the rythm. If you push while he strokes out and you move to get comfortable and that causes him to fall out... well, those are all things that will happen with a new partner. It takes time, patience, and experience with that person to learn how to move together so that it accentuates the experience. It is the best when you are both connection emotionally and in rythm together. I think that is when your sexual experience "explodes", for the lack of a better word .