lil kitty

i really think that you should talk to your partner. i know it is embarrassing but if she love you then she would not mine. if you don't tell her then that injury might get worse if you continue to have sex. continueing would lead to infection and pain and that might cause something really bad.

I agree with bally it is rape when u did not consent to it. just say no once and if he still did that to u then you should go to the police and tell them that he rape u. why did your aunt let him live there with her anyway. he is a monster. the best thing is just go tell the police what u told us on here especially the part when u want to break up with him then he would cut himself in front of u. i think the police to do something about and he need serious help.

i don't think there is anything wrong with your son. he is just growing and changing. i don't think u should worry about him too much. but if u still can't stop worrying about it then u can talk to him about it when you guys are out doing arrends. you could tell him that you are worry about him and u would like to know what is going on in his life and you would always be there to support and listen to him. just don't push him too much. eventually he will tell you. it just take time. oh by the way u don't have to worry about him not being able to have friends later in life b/c when he go to college things will change. he is just in a stage of changing and he need time to figure things out by himself.

i am also insecure about my body. i think a lot of girls are insecure about their body. the best thing to handle it is to tell her that u love/ like her for who she is and the scare doesn't really matter to u. don't worry if she won't take it in. everytime when she shows sign of insecure then just keep on telling her not to worry no one would notice it if she try to cover it. that would cause people to notice it more. OVER ALL JUST TELL HER HOW MUCH U LOVE HER AND TELL HER THAT THE SCARE ACTUALLY GIVE HER A SENSE OF UNIGUENESS

don't take any drugs b/c they are not really helping and they might even make you sick. just eat the things you normally eat and lift weights and exercise regularly.

lol funny how i can ralte to you. people too would love to be in my shoes too. since i am a five foot asian girl, i am also only weight 100 lbs and i am already 17 years old so i am not growing anymore. the best thing that i can advice you is eat whenever you wanted to. and also exercise. your body have very high metabolism so that is why it burn food very fast. also you should exercise frequently b/c the more exercise you get more muscles you get also you get hingry faster so soon you won't be a skinny guy but you will be a tone and musculer guy.

well yeah i know that you don't want to be hurt again but in order for you to conquere your fear you have to face it. yes it might be a bad first time thing but that does not mean that will always happen. most people go throught the same thing u have so don't worry about what happen to you the first just forget about and move on. but before you go out with the girl that you want to go out with you have to tell her that you have this kind f problem with your ex and you don't want it to happen again and if she agree then you should go out with her and if she does not then don't go out with her.

it just depend on a prson for me i would want to get married when i have a good job and a secure life that is when i want to get married. not when i am still in college and still swimming through the money issue. and of course i have to be with the person that i think is right for me.

i think you should try to contact him and ask him if he remember you and since you and him click so well it's a good chance he still remember you so don't worr about it and give it a try.

yeah and go on from there

this 17 year old girl sound just like me. i am 17 too and i also acted just like her. i know exactly what you been through and how you feel b/c my boyfriend also have to meet every need and demand that i lay out for him. but the only thing that is different between her and me is that i do love my boyfriend and i would never borrow my boyfriend money and would pay it back. also i would never go anywhere without telling my boyfriend or without inviting him b/c i love him and i know that he would worry to death if i go missing and he does not know where i am. in your case i know exactly that she does not love you and she is just using you since she know that you love her more than she loves you so she does not care about u. in my oppinion you should not provide her a space to live in the first place and i know that u desperately need that 800 but in my oppinion it would be wise to kick her out of your house and break up with her then let her live in the same place with you and keep on using you. but before you would do that try very carefully to talk to her very quiet and try not to argue with her b/c i am too are those kind of people who would not listen to people if they scream at me and it take a lil long for me to listen to people who talk to me gently. yeah we are kind of hard headed and if the talking does not work then just kick her out.

well let's see you can make him promise you that he cannot go to a party and get drunk unless you are there with him and if you are not there then he cannot go and get drunk. the way that you are telling me how he sound sorry well yeah maybe he is s why not give him a chance and tell him that he have to promise you that and if he promise you and if you caught him getting drunk without you then you will break up with him. remember to make it clear.

ok here is some tip for you. my boyfriend and i met through friend too. and we hang out a lot in a group too and we talk sometimes but that just a group thing. the only way that me and can talk alone is when he aske me for my phone number so when we want to hang out in a group he would call me and ask me if i wanted to hang out in a group today and i would say yes or no and after that we would talk over the phone for awhile and he would ask me what i am doing and i would ask him that and i kind of flow ofet than. that was just a way for you to get to talk to her alone. after that my boyfriend would kind of tell his one of his friend that could not keep a secret about him liking me and that he would like to go out with me. then that friend would go tell everybody including me. and here is where he would ask me out. so one day when our whole group of friends hang out we kind of rented a scarry movie and we would go to his house and turn off all the lights and watch it. he would be next to me and as we were watching he would as me out really quietly while his friends watching a scarry movie so no one would pay attention to you guys so you guys would not get embarrase. oh and by the way abut u feeling akward it's just b/c you like her and it feel that way. it's a normal feeling don't worry about it. i feel that way too when i first met my bf and when i like him.

don't rush yourself to have a boyfriend now b/c you are still young and you have a long way to go. i am 17 now and my boyfriend is 19 and we met each other last year. he is my first boyfriend and i am his first girlfriend and the thing that make us so close together is that we did not rush ourselves to get into a relationship so fast. to tell you the true i use to think the same thing about myself when i was your age but i realize that it's good not having a boyfriend at that age bc i can have more time to go do things that i like to make myself happy and when you are happy with who are then you will look pretty.

In my oppinion yes they would be more likely to cheat again b/c if they can't tell that they are cheatting on you when they are drunk then next time that he or she go drunk again will not know that he or she is cheating on you until they he or she got up n the morning and realize that he or she did it. but for some people they know that if hey gt drunk then they might be in trouble so they learn from that lesson and would not get drunk again.