nynsvrt2 Posted September 10, 2004 Share Posted September 10, 2004 well theres this girl that likes me and i like her.. she lives 3 hours away... im gona get her number and call her this weekend or next week and talk to her... can sum1 tell me a good way to ask her if she wants to be my girlfriend.. and ive already got my mind set that i want to date her and my friends also told me to so plz dont tell me that its not a good idea to hav a long distance relationship juss help me out.. thnx. Link to comment
Tinkerbell Posted September 10, 2004 Share Posted September 10, 2004 I don't think that you should ASK someone to be your girlfriend/boyfriend, instead ask them if they want to go out on a date and take it from there. If you want to be subtle about it you could say something like "We really have to get together, can I take you out to dinner and a movie sometime?" and if you want to be upfront, tell her something along the lines of "I really like you and I'd love to take you out on a date...May I?" Who knows, you guys may not even have any chemistry, that's why it's wise to try things out first before jumping into a relationship. Link to comment
nynsvrt2 Posted September 10, 2004 Author Share Posted September 10, 2004 i cant ask her out to the movies.. she lives 3 hours away ima ask her on the phone Link to comment
Tinkerbell Posted September 10, 2004 Share Posted September 10, 2004 Well even then, how can you expect to have a serious relationship with someone when you're only interacting over the phone? I'm sorry but you're not making much sense...No matter what the circumstances, it is not appropriate to ask someone to be your girlfriend/boyfriend over the phone when you guys haven't even gone on a DATE yet. Link to comment
nynsvrt2 Posted September 10, 2004 Author Share Posted September 10, 2004 i know a lot about her..and were not only gona interact on the phone... can u plz juss tell me wut i can say Link to comment
ECD Posted September 10, 2004 Share Posted September 10, 2004 cant ask someone to be your gf dude, if you do you will get rejected.. you must date her first! Link to comment
Tinkerbell Posted September 10, 2004 Share Posted September 10, 2004 I'm sorry but I don't know WHAT to tell you, I would hate it if someone asked me out over the PHONE Besides, if you like her so much it should all come naturally...I dunno, say something like "You're a great girl and I love talking to you, I'd like to take our relationship to the next level because we work so well together and I can see us having a future." It's hard for me to come up with something that you could say over the phone, and it also doesn't help that I don't know your age... Link to comment
nynsvrt2 Posted September 10, 2004 Author Share Posted September 10, 2004 ok she might come in like a month for an event lets say i ask her to go to the movies.. then wut do i say after we go to the movies to make sure that were dating Link to comment
Tinkerbell Posted September 10, 2004 Share Posted September 10, 2004 If all goes well on the date, then ask her if you guys can see each other exclusively. Link to comment
nynsvrt2 Posted September 10, 2004 Author Share Posted September 10, 2004 is there a different way to say it instead of "go out exclusively" Link to comment
Tinkerbell Posted September 10, 2004 Share Posted September 10, 2004 How about the simple "Will you be my girlfriend?" or "Can I have the honor of being your boyfriend?" I don't see what's so wrong with that...Darling, you're overcomplicating your life! Link to comment
falcon115 Posted September 13, 2004 Share Posted September 13, 2004 dude ive only asked out a few women in my life and I'm in the process again now (it sucks i know). Take it from me dont rehearse. I rehearsed my first time and I got a yes but the a polite shutdown. Second time just called her up asked her out she said yes we went and had fun. REhearsing doesnt work just talk normal wait for the oppurtunity and the take a shot at it. Link to comment
ECD Posted September 22, 2004 Share Posted September 22, 2004 How about the simple "Will you be my girlfriend?" or "Can I have the honor of being your boyfriend?" never ever ever ever ever say that. Link to comment
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