meganelaine092 Posted December 3, 2011 Share Posted December 3, 2011 My husband and I have been married 2 months and he is 14 years older than me, Im 19. He has never hit me, but play fights WAYYY too rough and covers it up. He scolds me for everything I do for a period of time then starts to "support my decisions" for about a week and changes again. He watches BDSM (Abuse) Porn frequently and is mean to the dog. The constant put downs are putting me in emotional turmoil. I feel like a prisoner in my home. Sometimes I just want to end my life. On the other hand, he threatens suicide if I leave so he keeps me in this endless cycle. On top of it all, I have a 2 year old daughter who is not his and he wants her in her room 24/7 becasue she "messes up the house". My stomach is in constant knots and I have severe depression because of this. I have the ability and money to leave and get our own place but I cant get the motivation to up and go. Link to comment
metrogirl Posted December 3, 2011 Share Posted December 3, 2011 I suggest for the sake of your child, you find that motivation to go. Link to comment
sademotions Posted December 3, 2011 Share Posted December 3, 2011 Leave or atleast take a break to figure this out. Dont go back until he completely and honestly changes his behavior ( which will be very hard) . Do you think someone as ruthless and as selfish as him will kill himself if you leave? I doubt. Put your n your daughters safety and happiness first and then worry about him. You got married to be happy, but it doesnt seem like you are so whats the point? Link to comment
Hollyj Posted December 5, 2011 Share Posted December 5, 2011 Do it for your child and dog, if you don't care about yourself! This is a very unhealthy, abusive and manipulative relationship! Get out now and stop making excuses!!!! Link to comment
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