hpinky Posted November 24, 2011 Share Posted November 24, 2011 Several months ago I posted on here about how my boyfriend at the time broke up with me. We were together for four years and I broke his trust by confiding in the wrong people. After about three months he wanted to work things out. By now, I've mentally prepared myself to move on. It was so painful. During our break up I did the worst things anyone could do to try and get their ex back. I cried, begged, called all the time, texted you name it. It took me about two months to finally stop crying every night and going out with my girls. Literally during the two months I cried every night. I even found someone I was interested in (not anything serious but flirting). I didn't think I'd even be able to flirt with anyone. I wanted to be happy again. I found myself finally able to smile again. After two and a half weeks of no contact from me at all, he starts contacting me. Calling me, asking me to hang out. My emotions were all over the place now. I didn't know what to do. I had to move out of our apartment, it was either that or he leaves and I'm stuck with all the bills. I hung out with him and knew I wasn't over him. I was so happy, but my crush for this guy was growing also. I felt so self conflicted. This went on for about another month or two and now I'm here. I'm more devastated then before. I find that I just want to be alone, by myself but he's so hurt. He wants to get back so bad. He's erasing me from his life so he can move on. I understand but it's hurting me so much to be erased. I can't imagine not talking to him, knowing if he's ok. I can't get him off my mind. I feel that I need to focus on myself but there's this nagging feeling. What should I do? Did I make the wrong choice? He's so hurt, and I don't want him hurt. It hurts me that he's hurting. Link to comment
Notagoodninja Posted November 24, 2011 Share Posted November 24, 2011 Meh to H with him honestly. Trust me we all shed our tears every other night or so But he rejected you. In my humble opinion he was prob trying to screw some other chic and it didn't work out so now he's going back to you because he's lonely Link to comment
Raaawr Posted November 24, 2011 Share Posted November 24, 2011 It sounds dodgy to me. I would say move on. His feelings are not your responsibility anymore. I get he was a huge part of your life and to be without that is scary but he wants a relationship and you cant give it to him so leading him on would be cruel. Link to comment
hpinky Posted November 24, 2011 Author Share Posted November 24, 2011 I have been trying to avoid the situation. I wanted things to just stay the way they are and he wasn't having it. So i told him I wasn't moving back in and we're just not talking now. It's hard. I know I need to just leave things be, but it's so hard. Link to comment
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