tom2602 Posted November 18, 2011 Share Posted November 18, 2011 Hey guys, new to this so just gonna give a bit of background and whats happened and hopefully your opinions will help out! Me and my ex (18 and 16) broke up a month ago after 6 months, with her dumping me by email, and I know we're young and it wasn't long but we didn't ever argue and everything was great. What shocked me the most was we went to a concert the night before and there was nothing wrong and it was a great night, or at least nothing wrong that I picked up on! Initially we kept contact, both initiating it every few days. However after reading threads on here I realised this was doing me no good as to be honest I wanted her back desperately and it was just dragging out the effects of me being dumped, which wasn't helping at all! So on the 7th Nov, whilst I was out running she sent a message saying something like 'heyyaaa, you ok?!' on facebook as we were still regularly contacting each other. When I replied I said that I couldn't keep doing this as it was keeping my hopes up for us getting back together, and that I was sorry for getting too comfy in the relationship as we'd gone 2 weeks not seeing each other! She said she understood the need to stop but didn't accept the apology. Therefore we got into quite an in-depth conversation about why we broke up as I never really got a solid reason, and that ended with her saying 'I have messed up emotions and I didn't have the same feelings anymore' and it ended with her saying 'I need time, like lots of time'. I agreed to give her this, and have managed NC for 11 days and counting. This has done it's job for me so far, even though it's early days, as I'm slowly moving on and getting myself back on track as the dumping took me totally by surprise! However, today I hit a little set back and this is where I'm hoping for some views and opinions. I went on facebook today and I noticed the pictures at the top of my wall had changed. I hadn't added any new ones or been tagged so I was a little confused, but then realised they had been pictures of me and my ex from a weekend away in the summer. I'm not a major uploader of photos on there so it never bothered me they were there as eventually newer ones would go up. So anyway, I've now realised that my ex has untagged me in the photos?! I would understand her untagging herself in them, but I don't see how untagging me in them has done anything worthwhile? The pictures and the album are still on her profile, so she hasn't deleted them, just got rid of my tags and therefore they're off my profile. And since she dumped me over a month ago, I can't help but wonder why now? Is it because of the NC? The only thing I can think of is that she's looking for some form of reaction from me, which I won't be giving anytime soon! Sorry about the length but wanted to give as much info as possible! Link to comment
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