uglywitch Posted November 17, 2011 Share Posted November 17, 2011 I don't even know where to begin...the boyfriend broke up with me after an argument. And now his friends -- well our mutual friends -- are all judging me for it. I suppose I can't blame them. I mean, I did tell them that I can't handle being around them since they are mainly his friends and they will be a reminder of him and I don't think I need that while I'm recovering and getting over him. I'm starting to believe all the judgements they are saying and about myself. I feel awful. I know I am being really immature about it, but not everyone can stay friends with their exes, nor can they stay friends with their ex's friends and family members. One even said that since I am so willing to throw away mutual friends, then I am basically treating them as disposable. I have never thought of them like that but it must be true since I ended the friendships since they are mainly his friends. Did I do the right or wrong thing by letting go of the mutual friends we had together when he decided to break things off? Link to comment
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