Heartbrokn1979 Posted November 15, 2011 Share Posted November 15, 2011 Good day all; Im looking for words of wisdom, help or positive advice!! My girlfriend and I broke up this past Sunday - after taking a "break" for the past 10 weeks!! I am devasted - I have lost my girlfriend and my best friend!! These past 10 weeks were hell; but made a little better with that the hope that everything might be sorted out!! Her reasons were as follows: She says she told me during our time together exactly what she wanted and where she wanted to be at this stage of our relationship - and this together with the fact that she felt that I hadn't formed a good enough relationship with her 7 year old daughter from a previous marriage had resulted in her deciding that she needed to do whats best for both her and her daughter and for now concentrate on just the 2 of them (her daughter was "struggling" with my girlfriends divorse from her ex-husband - and my girlfriend said she didnt want new men in and out of her life affecting her daughter more - yet her ex-husband has had 3 or 4 girlfriends in the same time we were together)!! To an extent she had told me - and I had asked for more time! I just feel that the matter could of been addressed differently - as in she could of sat me down and asked / told me that she needed to know exactly what my intentions were and taken my "answer" to base her decision on that - this obviously didnt happen!! Also - the issue with her daughter; we had just prior to our break decided that her daughter would spend more time at my house; thereby allowing us "quality" time to grow our relationship and my girlfriend was happy with that!! When we actually broke up - my girlfriend said she still loves me etc but just feels that she needs to "sacrifice" her happiness for her daughter right now!! This upset me - my girlfriend also deserves happiness and support - and just seemed unfair on me too!! Is this wrong? Anyway - I obviously want her back - but have no idea on how to go about this?? Is there any hope?? Link to comment
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