GreenCupcake Posted November 12, 2011 Share Posted November 12, 2011 This one is pretty self-explanatory. There are so many posts about people who try to get over their ex's and/or talk about how long it's been since they have talked, etc. There comes a time, however, when the ex's actions (or lack of actions) makes us realize that they don't really care anymore. At what point have you realized that? Even if it's something you are just noticing now, feel free to write about that too. Several days before our break-up, my ex and I got into a big argument. He avoided me during the weekend and he dumped me on a Monday. That day, he told me he wanted me to hate him and blamed me for everything (even though he was crying and told me that he will always love me. Strange, right?) Anyways, I have thought about the day of the break-up numerous times but it it didn't hit me hard until today. I think he did something behind my back and felt guilty about it so he said all those things to justify what he did. We even talked after the break-up and met up once to exchange our items and he never admitted that he did anything wrong. It's been six weeks since I've heard from him and I don't expect to either. Quite frankly, I don't care to stay in touch with him anymore. Realizing all of this has made me feel somewhat embarrassed. If I could go back in time, I would have gone NC completely. I was holding on to a false idea that he cared because of all the mixed signals but time has shown that he doesn't really care. Scary if you ask me. Link to comment
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