JU27 Posted November 8, 2011 Share Posted November 8, 2011 Hello, I'm not sure exactly what the definition of sexual assault is, but I don't know what to call this. I know it wasn't rape and it wasn't anything serious or a big deal. But still, it affected me a lot and I don't know why. A guy and I were at my house. He had a couple drinks, I didn't have anything to drink. But, I was very anxious. We were on my bed, and he kept yelling that I am dumb and that I'm not normal. He said I should take my pants off. I took my pants off. He was yelling how since I'm a virgin, I should have sex with him. I was just anxious and didn't know how to respond to him. We didn't have sex but he said I should touch him so I did. He then did "dry sex" but we didn't have intercourse. After, he said that "Noone can put up with your S***." He said I'm the one that will be lonely, and that "I will learn." I think he pressured me, but I don't think this was sexual assault. I didn't say yes or no. I kindof just gave in to whatever he was saying. I don't know why what he said affected me a lot, except I am very sensitive. I have been kindof insecure ever since this happened. I felt ashamed after. I know I played a part in this....but I was just wanting some feedback on what this was....I know rape is definitely considered sexual assault, but how exactly is sexual assualt defined? Thank you...... Link to comment
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