nestorZ Posted November 7, 2011 Share Posted November 7, 2011 So. It's been almost 3 months since BU, 5 weeks of NC, 5 weeks LC (not initiated by me). We hooked up a few times while drunk, and whenever she gets drunk or lonely, she sends me messages that she loves me, I'm the best thing to ever happen to her, she misses me etc etc. This is really * * * * ty for me, I feel like I'm being strung along... Just as I manage to think less about her, she sends me something like that and messes with my head again. She does care for me, but can't be with me atm because she has a whole lot of personal problems. I always thought there was someone else in the picture, but there isn't. It just seems that she's really that messed up. Whenever I ignore her calls for a little while, she wants me like crazy. But when I start replying, she seems to cool off. I really care about her and you could say that I love her and she's been acting quite well lately. Flirting with me and being a bit provocative which I love. BUT, she often switches to the cold personality and then I again feel like an idiot. This Friday I'm meeting up with her and I'm thinking of giving her an ultimatum. She can either get her act together, be honest and be with me again. Or she can lose me completely. It's a hard thing to do and I'm sure I'll have a mighty struggle with it, but I feel like it's the only right thing to do. I need to spare myself from more pain which I would suffer if we continued like this. What are your thoughts? I really need some advice or reassurance, this isn't easy for me. Thank you! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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