libra77 Posted September 3, 2004 Share Posted September 3, 2004 I would like some opinions on this one. My FWBs recently sent me a picture of his private area. We have not talked about becoming anything more, so I'm wondering what was this about. As far as I know, usually fwbs don't do this. Am I right or wrong? If I am right than what does this mean? I know that there has to be a lot of trust for him to do that and I have talked to a couple of my friends about this and they are thinking that he may want to move us to a different statis,(ie bf/gf). I'm not sure. guys can you please give me your opinion on this. Would you send pix like this to your fwb or does there have to me more feelings there on your part? Thanx! Link to comment
AwsomeDude Posted September 3, 2004 Share Posted September 3, 2004 i wont do this if i were to think seriously about the relation, but still theres some other explainations! maybe he is trying to pass a message he couldnt say ! Link to comment
libra77 Posted September 3, 2004 Author Share Posted September 3, 2004 I'm sorry but I don't fully understand what you are saying. It seems to me that you are saying that he is taking this as a joke. What might he have trouble saying. It's obvious that he feels very comfortable with me. Link to comment
AwsomeDude Posted September 3, 2004 Share Posted September 3, 2004 simply sending such a pic is about sex ! so why he is sending such a thing !?! it is weird actully ! so it is either he is not serious, or he needs sex but he is feeling shy to talk about it with u ! Link to comment
RayKay Posted September 3, 2004 Share Posted September 3, 2004 He is a Friend with Benefits, so I am pretty sure he can approach sex with her since that is what they do anyway! Original poster: Who knows. Maybe he wanted to "kick" things up in the bedroom and be a bit spicy. Maybe he has a different idea of what this relationship is? Have you talked about it? Link to comment
libra77 Posted September 3, 2004 Author Share Posted September 3, 2004 I have never had a fwb before, this is my first and it kind of came by accident. Anyway, the reason I'm confused is because he has told me he loves me, the first time he told me this, I asked him and he just kind of meant in a friend way, but that was before our "relationship" took the turn that it did. He told me he loves me a few weeks ago and he has been a little more "attentive" toward me and plus one of our mutual friends told him that they were going to set me up with someone and he got "flustered" and was just rambling on about the topic. And yeah, he is not shy about when he wants us to hook up, which really isn't all that often. Link to comment
RayKay Posted September 3, 2004 Share Posted September 3, 2004 I would say either: He thinks you two are MORE than FWB's OR He wants to be MORE than FWB's and is not sure how to approach it with you. What do YOU want? Link to comment
libra77 Posted September 4, 2004 Author Share Posted September 4, 2004 I have been thinking about that very same question a lot lately. I do have feelings for him but not sure how deep they are. Link to comment
AwsomeDude Posted September 4, 2004 Share Posted September 4, 2004 can i ask u what is FWB ? Link to comment
RayKay Posted September 4, 2004 Share Posted September 4, 2004 can i ask u what is FWB ? Friends with benefits - you are friends, but there are occasional intimate perks. libra - well, I think the only way feelings can get deeper is by getting to know them more, out of the just intimate relationship as well. Maybe, invite him out on an actual date or two, and see how things go!?!? You never know Link to comment
Amethyst Posted September 4, 2004 Share Posted September 4, 2004 As another poster said, I see nothing in his sending the pictures that suggest anything other than your relationship as it is. Being a friend with benefits is all about sexual activity, and sending someone pictures of your 'private parts' is all about sexual activity. I don't see it as him trying to 'further the relationship'. It may not generally be a thing that's done, but it's obviously something he wanted to do. Maybe he's hoping you'll reciprocate, so he'll have something to look at when he's alone... Link to comment
AwsomeDude Posted September 4, 2004 Share Posted September 4, 2004 sorry girls if i sound a lil bit stupid in her but english isnt my 1st ! but is fwb a good thing or a bad thing ? i mean is it something we can say it or we do it and hide it >? Link to comment
Amethyst Posted September 4, 2004 Share Posted September 4, 2004 FWB = Friends with benefits Basically, it means that you have sex and 'mess around' with the other person, but there is no commitment...you don't date or anything. It's a mutual agreement of two friends to have sex with no strings attached. Link to comment
Recommended Posts
Create an account or sign in to comment
You need to be a member in order to leave a comment
Create an account
Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!
Register a new accountSign in
Already have an account? Sign in here.
Sign In Now