Jnyce2010 Posted September 14, 2011 Share Posted September 14, 2011 Hey, everyone.. I've been celibate going on 2 1/2 months now, and I couldn't feel better. I have also quit drinking going on 2 months. I am studying for the LSAT and the GMAT, and I am being considered for a government job currently. The drinking hasn't really been an issue for me as of late. Going without sex is killing me slowly. I'm angry all the time and that's all I think about. I am not shunning sex long term, but I have had a string of empty relationships and now I'm just waiting for that special person that is worth my time. I have a female friend who I have just recently cut off, because I was starting to like beyond the level of friendship.. I cut this off because she has a BOYFRIEND. She is also very attractive, and she just recently let me know that I could now have sex with her anytime I felt like it.. She knows that I am celibate and I know that she is playing on this vulnerability. I REALLY, REALLY, REALLY want to have sex with her... I also know karma can be quite a ***** and I don't want this to come full circle.. I workout all the time, I read books, I pray..I go on nature walks...but I STILL WANT SEX..I WANT IT FROM HER lol... Has anyone out there been through anything similar, if so please help!! Link to comment
guynextdoor Posted September 14, 2011 Share Posted September 14, 2011 I would steer away from your female friend and to cure your sexual needs why don't you rub one out? Link to comment
Jnyce2010 Posted September 14, 2011 Author Share Posted September 14, 2011 I would steer away from your female friend and to cure your sexual needs why don't you rub one out? I just figured if I did that, then I mind as well go out and have sex... Link to comment
Jnyce2010 Posted September 14, 2011 Author Share Posted September 14, 2011 only reason that i say that..is because the more that i have done that in the past, the amped I am to go and seek out someone for sex! Link to comment
april15 Posted September 14, 2011 Share Posted September 14, 2011 only reason that i say that..is because the more that i have done that in the past, the amped I am to go and seek out someone for sex! I am the same way. "Rubbing one out" relieves the immediate pressure but seems to kick the sex drive into the next gear. You are in a spot where casual sex might be a solution. I would not have anything to do with the girl with the boyfriend, that's just me, only other singles for the casual thing. Keep it honest, keep it fun. I am sure you can find someone who is also looking for nothing serious. Link to comment
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