I think im "in like" with someone i met on the net

[Ated]

*sigh*

 

I really like this certain someone on the net, im just hurt that when i finally 'move on' from my last relationship... I can't date this guy. He lives like in America! ANd im im Australia...

 

OH

 

I dunno what to do. Is it possible for me to actually have feelings for him? Ive never met him in person?

[ComputerGuy]

So why can't you be withe him...I'm from Aus and met a girl in America whos....sigh.....

We know we won't see each other outside webcam for a fair while, but that one day we will....so if you can wait to actually see him.....you can do it.

[Ated]

Yeh...

 

 

Thanks

 

It seems as tho he's not interested in me as much as i am in him...

[ComputerGuy]

The only way to know for sure is to ask him if he would consider a long distance relationship. Just remember that it is a lot harder than a normal relationship, and you have to have complete trust and excellent communication if you want it to work.

[Ated]

Your right...

 

But as you said, it's gonna be really hard to make it work. The thing is, i want to be 'intimate' with him.. u know?

 

I dunno how i can if he's so far away...

[maimai]

aha, computerguy looks really like an expert, does long distance relationship make you communicating excellent? 8)

[Amoretto]

hey there, relationship has two aspects, you and him/her. you can stand the pain whatever of long distance relationship, it doesnt mean he can do the same thing!! the relationship works well, not just you can make it! both of you have to do it together!! and as you said that the guy seems not as interested in you as you are, that is very dangerous. there is no commitment or anything...so just keep looking!! or maybe you can talk to him, told him your feeling your thinking!! be honest....honesty is the key to successful relationship...

cheers

[Ated]

Well he said that 'anything' can happen... He also said that we should jsut let love take its course. WHICH I TOTALLY AGREE WITH! But, the thing is, if im interested in him and he's interested in me... we should NOT look for anyone else right??

 

Things is, i think that he is not as interested in me as i am him, because he thinks that long distance wont work. And agian, the intimacy issue...

[i_hate_the_world47]

Well i had one of my best relationships on the net.We didnt meet for months,but i loved him so much i was willing to wait.If you relly like this guy and you think he is worth it then wait for him.Good luck.

 

~Meagan~