wicked6018 Posted July 23, 2011 Share Posted July 23, 2011 he broke NC with me yesterday. by phone. after talking to him for a long time my feelings for him just come flooding back. then, i broke it again tonight by texting him. i know it was a mistake. he said he was stressed and wanted to be to himself when this break up happened. i told him that stress is a part of life, so i guess this was inevitable if he couldn't handle it and the stress effected his love for me. i told him it was a mistake to text him. haven't heard back from him. Link to comment
Hollyj Posted July 23, 2011 Share Posted July 23, 2011 You won't, until he needs another ego stroke. Honey, you fed his ego by responding. He knows you're still hooked. He got exactly what he wanted, and now you're back at square one. Stick with NC. Forever! Link to comment
2dayDream Posted July 23, 2011 Share Posted July 23, 2011 I also broke NC after 7 mths (he was the dumper). I feel like a fool doing so now because I thought he'd want to stay friends at least, but haven't heard from him (even though he'd say he'd call). I agree with Hollyj, stay NC and keep the focus on yourself. Link to comment
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