I really like her, but she has a boyfriend

[Stu2535]

Here's the deal....I really like this girl and we are pretty good friends. We have a lot of classes together and we talk and do a good amount of things together that are school related. The problem is that she has a boyfriend who is one of my friends but he is a senior and this girl I like and I are both juniors. I don't know if she is going to break up with him once he goes to college or not but am really interested in pursuing a relationship with her. How should let her know that I want to be more then friends but not be too overpowering and scare her off? I've never been in a real serious relationship but if there is anyone that I do want to pursue one with, it would be this girl. Even though she has a boyfriend that she's been going out with for around 6-7 months now, I think she is sending me signs that she likes me but I don't know because I'm not that experienced in relationships. When we sit together at lunch she leans on my legs to get something on the otherside of the table and doesn't do it for a second, but for a while, she always want me to sit with her in the computer lab and be partners in different activities we do in these school realated activites. Am I looking too much into these "signs" or does she have somthing for me and if so, how should I deal with her boyfriend who I am friends with but is going away to college? Any input would be great, thanks.

[aloneforever]

you want to know whether or not she likes you, I think the fact that she does have a boyfriend should be a good indicator. Wait and see if they break up and if they do then you should "console" her.

[Stu2535]

The two of them were together before I really met her and she's only been getting closer to me within the last month.....but whatever, I dunno anymore.

[extreme300]

Ok this is really bothering me. There is a girl that i like and she and alot of people know that i like her but she already has a boyfriend. what should i do?

[AnDrewL]

Stu2535: Believe me when I say that I know how you feel. I'm in a situation which is allmost identical, or maby even worse for me..

(made a thread: "I'm in love with here; but she is with someone else")

 

 

I don't know how close you are to her boyfriend.. But if she really is giving you some signs that indicates that she could like you, then this could mean that their relationship has some flaws. So you should perhaps talk to her boyfriend. Get chatting, and talk about their relationship.. To find out if anything is wrong, and how bad it might be..

But still: and remember this. If you have feelings for this girl, they could play tricks on your mind. Perhaps she doesn't mean anything by, what you call, signs..