Stu2535

Hey Taylor, thanks for replying to my post, it helped me take a look at things cause I've gotten a lot of help from other people I know too. As for your deal, brando's lovechild and SwingFox have already given you some good things to think about. I know what you're dealing with cause I'm in the same situation and it's hard not to just yell out "What's the deal!!!" But girls are like this, they play games with you and ofter most of them enjoy it. If I were you, I'd back off like I am in my situation and things seem to be going well, however, i'm not switching schools like you are. For the time being, don't be too forward or pushy cause she is "seeing" this other guy. I would keep somewhat of a friendship with her so she knows you're there but not being to forward and scaring her off. To sum it up, just like my situation, it's not looking too good for either of us but don't lose all hope, keep in touch with her but don't start acting like her boyfriend or anything. And just like SwingFox said, make sure you would feel comfortable being the second choice if this girl drops this other guy she is currently involved with.

The two of them were together before I really met her and she's only been getting closer to me within the last month.....but whatever, I dunno anymore.

Here's the deal....I really like this girl and we are pretty good friends. We have a lot of classes together and we talk and do a good amount of things together that are school related. The problem is that she has a boyfriend who is one of my friends but he is a senior and this girl I like and I are both juniors. I don't know if she is going to break up with him once he goes to college or not but am really interested in pursuing a relationship with her. How should let her know that I want to be more then friends but not be too overpowering and scare her off? I've never been in a real serious relationship but if there is anyone that I do want to pursue one with, it would be this girl. Even though she has a boyfriend that she's been going out with for around 6-7 months now, I think she is sending me signs that she likes me but I don't know because I'm not that experienced in relationships. When we sit together at lunch she leans on my legs to get something on the otherside of the table and doesn't do it for a second, but for a while, she always want me to sit with her in the computer lab and be partners in different activities we do in these school realated activites. Am I looking too much into these "signs" or does she have somthing for me and if so, how should I deal with her boyfriend who I am friends with but is going away to college? Any input would be great, thanks.