CamoMonkeys Posted August 3, 2004 Share Posted August 3, 2004 I feel just a little uncomfortable kissing, I've never done it before. I'm afraid I'm going to screw up or be a bad kisser or something. The whole thing has me a little freaked out. Any ideas?? Link to comment
wing wha Posted August 3, 2004 Share Posted August 3, 2004 hey could you give alittle bit more info. do you have a girlfriend. are you planning on kisssing her. or are you just thinking Link to comment
Roffler Posted August 3, 2004 Share Posted August 3, 2004 I'm guessing she might have a boyfriend, being female and all. Don't be nervous, it comes naturally. When you do kiss, you will magically know what to do. Very few people actually go do research before their first kiss, they just do it, and that's that. Don't worry so much. Link to comment
Nifty_Swifty1 Posted August 3, 2004 Share Posted August 3, 2004 Everyone has to endure that first kiss, but as long as you relax and act like you've been doing it forever it almost always works out right. Link to comment
fernandinaGXE Posted August 3, 2004 Share Posted August 3, 2004 when the time comes just relax and the first time just press your lips to hers (not too hard!) and thats it. Then when your comfortable with that you can move on to the more fun stuff! Link to comment
aireyc Posted August 3, 2004 Share Posted August 3, 2004 Again, I believe it's to "his" and not "hers". Anyway, if the person you're kissing is a good friend then it shouldn't be a problem. I could only see worrying if you were kissing a complete stranger. Besides, it would be a first for most people at your age. Just chill. Chris Link to comment
CamoMonkeys Posted August 3, 2004 Author Share Posted August 3, 2004 Thanks people. It's really helped. =) [by the way, I'm a girl, and I have a boyfriend] Link to comment
Shizzle Posted August 3, 2004 Share Posted August 3, 2004 lol, wow i felt alone when i had this problem!! luv IF you do screw up? so what? kissing can be done loads of ways, sure most people ram there tongues down lol but it can have different syles, all with different tongue motions. but when you do just relax the more you think about "what if i screw up" the bigger chance you will actually screw up! go get him, one tip once you start you will never stop hehe Link to comment
CamoMonkeys Posted August 3, 2004 Author Share Posted August 3, 2004 oo, that makes sense. Thanks! Link to comment
JuJu Posted August 3, 2004 Share Posted August 3, 2004 Everyone has a first time once! Don't be scared, it's easy and comes naturally. I was so worked up and so worried about it too, but when the time came...I knew exactly what I was doing. Don't worry, you'll do great! Good Luck!!! Link to comment
shygirl23 Posted August 3, 2004 Share Posted August 3, 2004 I felt the same way the first time I ever kissed anyone (which honestly, wasn't that long ago). We were really out of sync. I was embarrassed because I just knew that I was a bad kisser. However, even if I was terrible, my boyfriend seemed to enjoy it anyway. Seriously though, just be confident. Start slow. Everything will fall into place. Take it from someone who was in your shoes only a couple of weeks ago. Link to comment
BandNerd1001 Posted August 4, 2004 Share Posted August 4, 2004 hey, Yes everthing comes natrually. If you think about kissing then it will be all messed up. You just kinda go with the flow. Dont worry about it. if you simply dont want a kiss right then, make sure you tell him or have a friend to come alone with you. Maybe he wont kiss you. Just go with the flow. Its all natrual. Dont think about it, it will be all messed up. When the time comes you will be able to do it. If you are really unsure and you want to practice, put your hand in a fist. and pretend its your partners lips. Let me know if you need more help. I hope i helped. Dont forget to experiment, make it exciting! 8) Link to comment
CamoMonkeys Posted August 4, 2004 Author Share Posted August 4, 2004 Thankies! That did help Link to comment
BandNerd1001 Posted August 4, 2004 Share Posted August 4, 2004 Anytime you got a question i'll be happy to help ya Link to comment
Jordan-the-not-so-great Posted August 5, 2004 Share Posted August 5, 2004 so i also on this subject am just wonderin where, when u guys are french kissing / Making out where do u put ur hands? im a guy with a gf Link to comment
BandNerd1001 Posted August 5, 2004 Share Posted August 5, 2004 well when it happens you really dont think about where u put your hands. If you rreally worried though usually u would like put ur hands like on her nck/head, somewhere near there. her hands may wrap around ur neck. I hope i helped. Link to comment
Shizzle Posted August 5, 2004 Share Posted August 5, 2004 well that really depends on her height etc, and her postion, if your standing up i usually just put my hands on hips or on her bum hehe. but it really does depend on the position Link to comment
BandNerd1001 Posted August 5, 2004 Share Posted August 5, 2004 yes it does. I was just referring to like a sitting postion. Link to comment
CamoMonkeys Posted August 5, 2004 Author Share Posted August 5, 2004 Thanks guys! I kissed my boyfriend yesterday and took ya`lls advice. It helped! Link to comment
Shizzle Posted August 5, 2004 Share Posted August 5, 2004 sooo no mess ups? all wnet well/? Link to comment
CamoMonkeys Posted August 5, 2004 Author Share Posted August 5, 2004 I don't think I messed up, it just shocked me at first because he put basically his whole tongue in my mouth. But he said I was byfar the best kisser he'd ever kissed. Link to comment
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