Walkedoveragain Posted July 29, 2004 Share Posted July 29, 2004 he replied saying "ok, let me know when your finished". Im very confused (you will see my previous posts). I dont know what i want and i think this is only fair to tell him that i need time to think. I love him very much but dont know what i want anymore. I feel torn and i am upset. So what now? Can anyone help me sort my confused mind out please? Link to comment
Roffler Posted July 29, 2004 Share Posted July 29, 2004 If you love him in the romantic way, then I think you already know what you want, but seem to lack the confidence to go through with it. Perhaps you fear the consequences of what will happen if you get too attached. Things have a way of working themselves out. Link to comment
Walkedoveragain Posted July 29, 2004 Author Share Posted July 29, 2004 Thanks Roffler. I think im already "too attached"! I guess i need time to think about the future. He just emailed me to say "maybe your right, we should both have a think about what we are doing and where we are going...". I think we just need to have a long talk together, face to face instead of by email. He is due to visit in a couple of weeks (after the wedding he couldnt attend!) so I suppose we should sit down and talk then. Hopefully i should have my head together by then. Link to comment
Fleshy Posted July 29, 2004 Share Posted July 29, 2004 maybe you're not "too attached"...maybe you're just afraid to be alone...it could be...anyway it happened to me... Link to comment
Walkedoveragain Posted July 29, 2004 Author Share Posted July 29, 2004 No, im not afraid to be alone. Im scared that if i throw it all away i will realise i have made a mistake.... I dont know if i can be 2nd best to his ex-girlfriend which is how ive been feeling recently (if you read my previous post). Link to comment
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