My ex wants to go on a date???

[ErekaGrl621]

My ex and I broke up 2 months ago..now he wants to go out on a date. I don't know how to act or what to say?? Do I play cool or let him know I still have feelings? Help..cause its tonight!

[OhJeeeez]

Why'd you break up? lol If you both are up to it, I'd go, takes two you know.

[ErekaGrl621]

We broke up because he had issues with trusting me..though I never cheated..i dunno it was really odd and out of nowhere

[OhJeeeez]

Well, you had to have done something to trigger it at least. Maybe didnt call when you said, or didnt answer your phone?

 

Sometimes people can start to distrust someone simply because it reminds them of someone who actually did break thier trust.

 

If he is asking you out to dinner, he is obviously wanting to try. I say go, talk to him about this whole trust thing. If you would never do anything to break his trust, tell him that and asking what it was that made him not trust you. If he really wants to make it work, he'll talk.

 

Good luck and let us know what happens..

[ErekaGrl621]

Thanks..I am just trying to calm myself..its like the first date you know..I will let you know..fingers crossed...

[OhJeeeez]

Communication is key kiddo

[ErekaGrl621]

ahhh ok..i gotta go but i will update later..thanks u helped calm me!!

[lostinspace]

I hope everything works out for you. There is really no certificate for completing a trust class and there is not a Trust 101 curriculum. His issues may be from past relationships or someone is in his ear.

 

I think if we never take chances on love and what could be then we suffocate ourselves from happiness.

 

Give it a shot.. I wish you the best.