help on breaking up

[thepinkpanther]

i am currently in a long distant realtionship and i dont know how to end it.

I need some one to post almost excatly what i should say. becuase i cant come up with anything. the reason why i dont wanna go with him any more is becuase i just dont have feelings for him anymore and i dont know how to word it other than i "wanna break up with you"

and that doesnt sound correct and most of the time ppl dont say i have to break up with you...

 

please help with what i say

 

thanks much

[aznova]

Hi,

 

It doesnt hurt to be honest. It will painful for him, but you will feel better about the fact that you was honest, didnt beat around the bush, and didnt leave him hanging. To me a, "Im sorry, but I dont want to be in this relationship anymore." is all you need. If you feel that you need time to evaluate how you feel, then tell him that instead.

[RagingBull]

Being honest will make it alot less painful for him. Let him ask you questions, it'll help him get some closure and move on with his life.

[butterflykiss04]

Honesty is key!