Just A Teen Posted July 23, 2004 Share Posted July 23, 2004 ME and my girlfriend are usually at her house downstairs under a blanket...and sometimes we can be dirty becuz we can see and hear when people r coming down....but when i finger her she has to keep her pants on so i dont have much space....does anyone have a clue how i could make her cum? Thanks.. Link to comment
teenresearch Posted July 23, 2004 Share Posted July 23, 2004 Do not assume you know how to please her, ask her how to please her. Ask her what she does when she plays with herself and what feels good to her and then try to follow those steps. For most girls fingering does not feel that good as it tends to be too rough. Link to comment
Just A Teen Posted July 23, 2004 Author Share Posted July 23, 2004 ...Well ive asked her about fingering her and she likes me too and she ask's me too...she doesn't play with herself because she thinks its nasty......i told her it was okay to tell me if she did because i know i do....but...so still do you know? Link to comment
teenresearch Posted July 23, 2004 Share Posted July 23, 2004 I honestly think exactly the fact that she is not comfortable with her body is the reason she is not orgasming. How old is she? You? She needs to get comfortable with her body. Once she is able to orgasm on her own, she might be able to reach one with your help too. Link to comment
Just A Teen Posted July 23, 2004 Author Share Posted July 23, 2004 well im 14 almost 15 this sept...and she's 15 almost 16 this dec. Link to comment
teenresearch Posted July 23, 2004 Share Posted July 23, 2004 If she is uncomfortable about masturbation, then do not push it. For each girl it takes different age and experience to relax about her body. Having an orgasm is not the most important thing in a relationship. If she needs to talk to me for advice, she can contact me. Link to comment
Just A Teen Posted July 23, 2004 Author Share Posted July 23, 2004 Maybe im confused...... so a girl has to have an orgasm to cum? i feel really dumb Link to comment
teenresearch Posted July 23, 2004 Share Posted July 23, 2004 Well, can you explain then what you mean by cum? In my limited knowledge of English jargon, cum is just another way of calling orgasm. Yes, a girl needs to orgasm in order to cum -- it is one and the same thing. Link to comment
Just A Teen Posted July 23, 2004 Author Share Posted July 23, 2004 okay..... So how come guys cum so easy in sex and girls dont? Link to comment
Duderanomi Posted July 23, 2004 Share Posted July 23, 2004 Oh man. You see, when a man loves a woman... Link to comment
teenresearch Posted July 23, 2004 Share Posted July 23, 2004 Guys are more primitive and need less stimulation to reach orgasm. Girls need more foreplay. Generally the anatomy of the female sexual organs is more complex and that is why it is not as easy for women to orgasm from sex. Link to comment
Gilgamesh Posted July 23, 2004 Share Posted July 23, 2004 I agree with Teenresearch your girlfriend isn't very comfortable with her body yet, the fact that she thinks of those things as "dirty" doesn't help. she allows you to touch her, but its because she wants to please you, not so much because she likes it that much. Understand that females do not orgasm like men do, nothing is going to come shooting out (except for very rare cases). Hiding under a blanket, and the fear of getting caught may not be much of a turn on for her, to much on her mind to concentrate on feelings she has Little experience with if any. Also, having to do it with her pants on, your probably applying too much pressure. Link to comment
Just A Teen Posted July 23, 2004 Author Share Posted July 23, 2004 Okay, thanks for the help.. You've been great !! Link to comment
teenresearch Posted July 23, 2004 Share Posted July 23, 2004 I would say, let her talk to female friends who are a bit more comfortable with her body. Talking with a guy about this, at that age, is not the easiest thing. And be patient with her. Love her for the friendship, not for the orgasm. Link to comment
Just A Teen Posted July 23, 2004 Author Share Posted July 23, 2004 oh no.... i love her with all my heart...i dont doubt it a bit..... im just worried that i don't please her enough and i want her to be pleased with what i do..and i figured that orgasm was the furthest point...and she would like it and it would then please her. I'm not shallow at all i gaurenteer you Link to comment
teenresearch Posted July 23, 2004 Share Posted July 23, 2004 The best way to please a girl is to be faithful to her. For a girl trust is so much more important than an orgasm. Link to comment
CamaroJoe Posted July 23, 2004 Share Posted July 23, 2004 I just have to put my 2 cents into this one. I had this g/f for 3.5 years. I could never make her cum. When I did any foreplay she would ask me to stop. Either she was nervous about it or just, i don't know lol Anyway, I dated this chick from February to April and in about an hour of regular missionary intercourse, i made her cum 6 times. I don't think there was even one time where she didn't have multiple orgasms during sex. So, I guess the moral of my story is: it depends on the person. I don't know if it's psychological, physical, mental, emotion or all of the above. And I have to mention this: The girl i was with for 3.5 years was 4 inches taller than me, the other was the same height. And she also told me that I was the first person she ever masterbated to. So....I hope that helps? Link to comment
teenresearch Posted July 23, 2004 Share Posted July 23, 2004 I guess you must be right. I have girlfriends who have never orgasmed from sex but I still mainly attribute it to how comfortable they are with their body and how comfortable with their partner. I have no first hand experience so I was just offering general advice. Link to comment
Gilgamesh Posted July 23, 2004 Share Posted July 23, 2004 Every woman is different, in my experience, all the women have orgasms with oral, only a few with fingering and most with intercourse. with fingering and intercourse it depends on the mood and the girl. foreplay etc. most woman do NOT have orgasms on a regular basis through just plain intercourse, dont remember the percentages off hand, but its pretty low. something like 20% have orgasms everytime they have intercourse. I think its higher than that, but maybe I been lucky that way. Link to comment
LGB70 Posted August 2, 2004 Share Posted August 2, 2004 Not all girls will orgasm just by fingering. Most don't! Has she ever had sex? Cause if she hasn't fingering probably won't get her to cum! Link to comment
OverParanoid Posted August 2, 2004 Share Posted August 2, 2004 You are both really young, You have alot of time to experience what each other wants and likes. Make sure you both are protected if it is going farther then it should, one careless mistake will change both of your lives forever. Have fun experimenting, but know when to say when Link to comment
opranks612 Posted August 14, 2004 Share Posted August 14, 2004 Not all girls will orgasm just by fingering. Most don't! Has she ever had sex? Cause if she hasn't fingering probably won't get her to cum! Having sex doesn't matter, hand stimulation is the first sexual experience for most people (well besides masturbation), the question is has she ever had an orgasm? How can someone expect you to make them orgasm when they've never had one before? Link to comment
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