I love my best friend

[Ja12shirks]

Listen here I am a 21 year old male that is a single father and now in love with my bestfriend who has a boyfriend. I have known this girl most of my life we went to grade school together and everything. We are so close and my son alex calls her mom. I Love her with all my heart and I know she has feelings for me but wants to make her relationship work with her boyfriend that is currently in jail.

I am with her all the time and we share all of our problems and talk about anything. My family likes her and I know I have had a crush on her since 8th grade and now it's not a crush I know I'm in love and don't know how to approch her about it.Please help me caus eI love her and want to tell her but don't know how.

[allsOp]

I dont think things will improve if you dont confront her with your feelings. A boyfriend in jail, if she is as nice and good as you described her than she should have nothing to do with the guy in jail. He is violent, or something, and that is not right for any women.

[bored]

wow u been crushin on her since grd 8...and u know she feels for u...i mean wat else do u want? ur the guy...make a move before its too late...

[Ja12shirks]

Ok Her boyfriend is not violent or a real bad guy any any way shape or form or she wouldn't be with him. Yes he is in jail but that don't mean he is bad he just got caught drinking and driving with no liscence and din't have insurance so he got nailed pretty good for all of it.

I really do care for her but don't want to pressure her knowing that she wants to make things work with him. WEll now that being said please help

[boredguy]

u seem to feel so much for this woman, but you're scared to tell her. tell her! dont let an oppurtunity pass. your son calls her mom?! if anything this must be a hint for you. dont let this oppurtunity pass you up. wouldnt u rather do something and know how it happens rather than not do anything at all and wonder for the rest of ur life how things would be IF. two words that feel like twin daggers into ur heart. " what if ? " dont let it happen to you.

[syk1521]

ur son call her mom?why?

that guy was in jail who was just a boyfriend with her,well,just a boyfriend means u have chance,the trouble stay there for ever if u dont show it to her.