eden760 Posted July 18, 2010 Share Posted July 18, 2010 My timeline Tuesday day - I love you baby Tuesday night- after 2 years he breaks up with me Wednesday am he leaves our home Wednesday am we text back and forth and he says we WILL talk later. we dont Thursday- NC Friday- he calls me to ask me to release his cell phone from our plan. Then sends me a "Its not me it you. I love you, but I have to do this. I will explain more soon etc.. (its in my other posts). I text back I hope you find what you're looking for. Saturday- NC (pretty good day for me considering) Sunday am- Morning text from him "Hi".. nothing else .. no more contact. I did not respond. My day has been officially ruined.. crying all day. This sucks Link to comment
anu1560 Posted July 18, 2010 Share Posted July 18, 2010 Please take care of yourself. Maybe you need to keep complete NC and see for few days what happens. Link to comment
Reilly2856 Posted July 18, 2010 Share Posted July 18, 2010 Stay strong and continue with NC. A simple 'hi' should not be a reason enough for you to speak to him if you are serious about doing this NC thing. If it is something important, he will call you or text you to explain...the fact it is a simple 'hi' does not mean anything. He may just be feeling the waters to see how you are doing...missing him yet? Don't let him control you...if you let a simple text as that ruin your day, then you are letting him control you. Let it go and make the effort to make this a good day for yourself. Link to comment
diamond78 Posted July 18, 2010 Share Posted July 18, 2010 Definitely maintain NC for now....Just remind yourself how he has a link removed profile up already with the word "greener" for his title....If the grass is so greener on the other side of the fence, then let him stay there. Post here instead of replying... and wait a sec....Did he say it was you or him for the reason of the breakup? Not sure from what you have written with the "it's not me, it's you" bit There are no magic words to get you through this....time and support from your friends will be what you helps you the most. Link to comment
eden760 Posted July 18, 2010 Author Share Posted July 18, 2010 I meant he said "Its not you, its me" whatever. Link to comment
insecurefool Posted July 19, 2010 Share Posted July 19, 2010 it hasn't been long enough. Link to comment
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