MsDexter Posted July 1, 2010 Share Posted July 1, 2010 DREAMS! Had a dream we are back together and it felt so real then I wake up and I know it's not even possibility. It's a horrible way to start a day. I don't wanna dream it's not helping me at all. Any tips on that lol. Link to comment
sunday2010 Posted July 1, 2010 Share Posted July 1, 2010 ME too today its been 7 weeks since the bearkup but my dream were worse I tried to make up with him but he wandered off and everything was broken around us.It was awful!!!! I felt ill when I woke up. 7 to 8 weeks and I still get these awful dreams I don't wanna dream either!!! Link to comment
MsDexter Posted July 1, 2010 Author Share Posted July 1, 2010 I am so sorry you going through this as well - I know! It is so damn horrible. ruins my whole day and makes me wanna be back with him and I was doing SO well. Link to comment
baxxter Posted July 1, 2010 Share Posted July 1, 2010 I had a dream this morning that he was still with me! but I knew it was not real, or that it was dream! This reminded me of the time after we got back together last time where I kept having dreams of him dumping me. It was so frequent, and made me almost cry each time. Kinda makes me think that I don't have to have those dreams any more, and that's great... Link to comment
MsDexter Posted July 1, 2010 Author Share Posted July 1, 2010 I had a dream this morning that he was still with me! but I knew it was not real, or that it was dream! This reminded me of the time after we got back together last time where I kept having dreams of him dumping me. It was so frequent, and made me almost cry each time. Kinda makes me think that I don't have to have those dreams any more, and that's great... Yeah it's been 2 weeks. And for the first week and all I have been having him dumping me over and over dreams. And today after almost 3 weeks I have a dream of being back with him and how good it feels. And yeah I guess if you stopped having those dreams maybe it's a sign that you are letting go Link to comment
MsDexter Posted July 1, 2010 Author Share Posted July 1, 2010 Another thing is while I was with him every time I had a dream about him he was bad in it not sweet guy he was normally and now that we broke up he is a nice guy who wants me back and all lol. We are such complicated creatures ¬____¬ Link to comment
AmadeusXXI Posted July 1, 2010 Share Posted July 1, 2010 I've had about three dreams about my ex since the break up, the latest one came last night. It wasn't her per say, but her friends saying she still loved me. The worse one however was a dream that was pretty much playing our moments together back to me - That wasn't the best thing for me at the time ](*,) Link to comment
baxxter Posted July 1, 2010 Share Posted July 1, 2010 Funny that's the way it is for us. When I dreamed about getting dumped, over and over, he was actually very caring and nice to me, working things out with me (this is after when we got back together last time.) Feel OK, be well x Link to comment
ClueLessGlow Posted July 1, 2010 Share Posted July 1, 2010 im sorry ur feeling this way! i can imagine how hard it is to dream of something that feels so real and then wake up and theres nothing there. the disappointment is crazy! Link to comment
MsDexter Posted July 1, 2010 Author Share Posted July 1, 2010 Yeah it's unbelievable how it can ruin your whole day Link to comment
TurtleDove12 Posted July 2, 2010 Share Posted July 2, 2010 Yeah it's unbelievable how it can ruin your whole day Dreams are powerful. They can make us feel warm...and they can make us feel horrible. Don't put too much stock in them. Link to comment
MsDexter Posted July 2, 2010 Author Share Posted July 2, 2010 Dreams are powerful. They can make us feel warm...and they can make us feel horrible. Don't put too much stock in them. Yeah I try not to but some feel so real and when you wake up and realise it's not real it messes you up. Link to comment
bluberry Posted July 3, 2010 Share Posted July 3, 2010 i hope you are feeling better.. i know how they can make you feel cos i have them too. What helps i find is i only sleep when i'm really really tired and i don't dream. Link to comment
MsDexter Posted July 3, 2010 Author Share Posted July 3, 2010 i hope you are feeling better.. i know how they can make you feel cos i have them too. What helps i find is i only sleep when i'm really really tired and i don't dream. I'm not totally miserable, but every time I do have one it just makes me feel like the first day of the break up. Yeah I have been avoiding sleeping early lol you know it's one time you feel like I can just sleep and get away from all this pain but then you fall asleep and dream about the jerk. Link to comment
sunday2010 Posted July 3, 2010 Share Posted July 3, 2010 I'm not totally miserable, but every time I do have one it just makes me feel like the first day of the break up. Yeah I have been avoiding sleeping early lol you know it's one time you feel like I can just sleep and get away from all this pain but then you fall asleep and dream about the jerk. Its so like this for me.I had another one early morning and I seem to get the dreams very early in the morning.and this time I was running again up dark stairs and I've had this dream alot but in different areas.I dreamt we were walking hand on hand chatting about thingsin a tourist area.I ended up in a dark building which was shutting down for a long weekend and running up very dark stairs.I've had a few dreams with dark stairs and me climbing them.I also had one with broken bottles in it and a plane crash.They driv eme nuts and I really hate it.I woke up today with that stair dream in my mind and I was down all day. Link to comment
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