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Hi, I'm a 33 year-old divorced mother of 3. I've always had a good sex drive. Always been interested and enjoy sex,with or without a partner. Lately I just want to get off all the time. I mean I usually masturbate I'd say 5 of 7 days a week, with the occasional temporary increase or decrease. For just over a month now though,I just can't cum enough. I get off in the shower, before bed, when I wake up, when I come home from work...lol its just crazy. Sometimes w/toys, sometimes w/porn, sometimes on the phone w/a couple friends. Sometimes online. Just depends what I'm in the mood for.lol

I live w/my 3 children, have a job I love and usually work a minimum of about 50 hours a week. I currently am single and really have no interest in a relationship. While I'm always "in the mood" lately I have no desire to sleep around. I have the occasional sex w/the ex and that's it. We've done that like about once a month since divorcing anyway and it hasn't changed. I used to always wait til the kids were asleep or gone, now though as long as they are occupied, I lock my bedroom door and just make sure to stay quiet. lol... so basically I don't feel like this is a "problem" I just don't understand it. Anyone have similar issue? Of course comments/questions are welcome.

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I think you should celebrate!


Do you know how many people have the exact opposite problem that you are mentioning? If you are getting enjoyment from your, ahem, "sessions" (whatever the method is) then go for it!


It sounds like you are doing all the right, civilized things around your kids. You are locking your door, and it doesn't seem like you are neglecting them or anything like that. I would say this is only a problem if it interferes with your life somehow (time with kids, work, etc.)


But you seem so happy. You love your job, you have a great sex drive, you don't feel alone or feel the need to HAVE to have someone (you are fine pleasing yourself).


Unless you're hiding things here, nothing is wrong!

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I do! But that's pretty normal for a guy in his mid 20's... I'm pretty sure most men find that sort of sexual voracity to be quite desirable in women. This might be TMI, but... [ Just reading your post gave me a hard-on!] I doubt anybody's going to judge you for this since having a healthy sex drive is perfectly normal no matter how much we try to cover it up in this culture. It might be a little overwhelming at times, but as long as it's not getting in the way of other activities like holding down your job or raising your child then I don't think there's really much of a problem.

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