matius Posted May 11, 2010 Share Posted May 11, 2010 I've come accross some photos of my girl with someone that I don't know. They make me feel uncomfortable because there is something that seems unusually intimate in my opinion; suggestive - my gut feeling. They were posted in a collection of images ... a gallery type deal so she knew I could see them quite easily. Now that being said, I don't want to be some jealous fool that ends up becoming a complete drag on everything to the point that the relationship dissolves when it might be nothing. It's not really my angle. My angle is more about time. It's about taking control of my time rather than wasting it - I can deal with any issue that might cause an end but that's neither here nor there. To me though, it really feels like an absolute no-win situation. If I ask about it I seem like a paranoid traffic cop or someone who can be made to look crazy. But if I don't ask then what... I go on with that nagging question? So I guess at the end of the day what I'm asking is, what would others do to stay even through something like this? I really have a communication gap in that I don't know how to say it with the right touch. I mean, have you ever seen anyone use such a method to try & tell someone something? Appreciate your feedback. Link to comment
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