chrisWIP Posted May 5, 2010 Share Posted May 5, 2010 This may sound like a rant, it may very well be. I'm hoping for some validation, maybe advice from someone who has been in the same situation. The secretary I work with is hot. She's a flirt or she's a total witch, depending on how other men are treating her in her life (i.e. if she's getting enough attention, she's intolerable). She is EXTREMELY unprofessional and there is only a one year age gap between us. She's low girl on the totem pole, she gives off the air that she's powerless. When I first started here, she talked to me incessantly about her terrible relationships, unfair treatment from bosses, gossiped about co-workers I did not even know yet. When she came onto me and later rebuffed me when she got back together with her boyfriend, I decided I didn't want to deal with her anymore. I'm at work, not here to be someone's therapist/on-call flirting fix. It was interfering too much. So I'm the bad guy. She gives me the silent treatment now and takes all her chances to be snotty. I suspect she's taking measures to exclude me from the "exclusive" group of young people at our small office. She's still extra hot... which is why I'm mad. I can't walk by her to get coffee without getting shot a nasty glance And if she wasn't so cute, I wouldn't care. Apparently I'm not immune to good looks. She has power over me and it makes me mad. I want to equalize her Link to comment
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