geminigirl1234 Posted May 4, 2010 Share Posted May 4, 2010 Hi, I guess my situation is a bit tricky as it does not have the typical dumper/dumpee dynamic. I was seeing this guy for about 5 months, at first he was making lots of plans to see me, was really into me, and was in general taken by me. However, by about the 4th month, I started getting scared that he would leave me, and so was acting a bit insecure and clingy, I think he could sense this too and was withdrawing a bit, but still kept on making plans, and wanting to see me. By the 5th month, I decided to break it off with him because I was scared of getting hurt. I was also going through some tough times back then, and so my decision was emotion based rather than logic. Now its been two months since I told him I cant see him anymore (to which he didnt object) and I wanted to start talking to him again, and perhaps seeing if the spark is still there.... But the problem, is that I dont really know how to go about it. Do I just tell him that I was going through a tough time back then, and if he is ever in my town that I would love to hang out? Suggestions would be awsome! Also, I wanted to know if there are people out there that went through a similar situation and what happened to them. Thanks Link to comment
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