jakestryder Posted May 2, 2010 Share Posted May 2, 2010 So two weeks ago I took a friend out on a date. She had been interested in me for a while, but i had just gone through a breakup, but recently I had really begun to see her a new light and wanted to see where it led. The first date was AMAZING, probably the best i've been on in a while, and we've gone on a few more since and been hanging out pretty regularly. Anyway, I now find myself going back and forth on whether or not I'm into her or if I'm even attracted to her? Is this normal? I haven't dated in about a year and my previous relationships before that have been people I was already extraordinarily close with, so this "getting to know you" thing is a little new for me. I'm terrified of hurting her, and worry that maybe I'm sabotaging myself in my head. On one hand, she's absolutely amazing and we have a lot in common and love spending time with one another. On the other, I'm not sure I'm ready to end being single and I'm afraid that maybe I'm settling because i'm not "blown away" (but is this realistic to expect anymore? I'm a 26 year old guy. Thanks for any advice and insight... Link to comment
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