ForumGuy Posted April 5, 2010 Share Posted April 5, 2010 When we split up she had to keep saying "you never know what the future holds" and "people get re-married all the time". I don't think comments like that are approriate when you are leaving and divorcing someone. Has anyone had an ex say something like this to them? What do they mean? Is she just trying to keep me on hold? Been 5 weeks NC and I know I won't break it first. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sahasupa Posted April 5, 2010 Share Posted April 5, 2010 I would not bother trying to interpret every weird thing an ex might have said. She is no longer part of your life, so who cares? Keep up your good work at NC. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
epson391 Posted April 5, 2010 Share Posted April 5, 2010 NC NC NC I know its tough going from 100% caring about someone to 0% caring overnight but it slowly gets easier. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sac Posted April 5, 2010 Share Posted April 5, 2010 its all BS guilt words my friend..i got fed it all aswell. just stick to NC dont anything anymore unless she talk to you and be polite Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ascending Posted April 5, 2010 Share Posted April 5, 2010 "You never know what's going to happen" "Some people get back together after 20 years and get married" "I don't know what's going to happen" Things my ex told me. I was hopeful. I kept asking her about it and it seemed she got agitated. Spoke to her sister and her sister told me my ex said strait up "not a slight chance" at reconciliation. That was heavy for me, meant it's over, forever. From what it seems, that's not gonna happen. I'm moving on, she already has. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sac Posted April 5, 2010 Share Posted April 5, 2010 "You never know what's going to happen" "Some people get back together after 20 years and get married" "I don't know what's going to happen" Things my ex told me. I was hopeful. I kept asking her about it and it seemed she got agitated. Spoke to her sister and her sister told me my ex said strait up "not a slight chance" at reconciliation. That was heavy for me, meant it's over, forever. From what it seems, that's not gonna happen. I'm moving on, she already has. yeah it sucks doesent it the BS.. my ex dumped me ended on good terms.. i guess.. then 3 weeks later is with some guy...month and a bit down the line still hasnt told me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deecbee Posted April 5, 2010 Share Posted April 5, 2010 IMO, statements like that are either to make the dumper feel better by icing over the seriousness of the issue, OR to keep the dumpee on ice/hopeful for a reunion. I've had exes who made statements like that and later realized that it was only to keep me "around" in case they had second thoughts. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ForumGuy Posted April 6, 2010 Author Share Posted April 6, 2010 Yeah... kind of what I figured. I'll just stay NC for my own good and carry on. Thanks for the input. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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