she says it tickles too much

[octoberz]

me and my girlfriend havent had sex before because we're both not really ready yet but because we have almost been dating for a year i started to finger her.

at first she says it feels really good so i gradually speed up a little bit and she starts to twitch and breath really heavy but then she tells me i need to stop cause it tickles too much.and then she wont let me continue. i dont want to make her do anything she doesnt want to but i really want to give her an orgasm. any advice?

[_Asti_]

Does she bring herself to orgasm? Does she masturbate?

If not, I think its time for her to start playing around and figuring out herself so that she can relax and let you play with her.

 

She may just not know the different sensations, whats normal, whats not, what going beyond the threshold of 'tickleness' can bring or whatever.

 

Until then, what can you do? She doens't want it to go further and wants it to stop, so really..all you can do is stop...or force it..which obviously isn't an option.