Leighton Posted December 24, 2009 Share Posted December 24, 2009 My ex just called me I didn't pick up... but part of me wants to call him back. I don't know why he called, probably to ask why I'm ignoring him but I have such a bad feeling in me! He usually texts after he calls too, but he hasn't. I'm doing the right thing by NOT answering him.. right? Link to comment
DN Posted December 24, 2009 Share Posted December 24, 2009 Depends what you want from him. Link to comment
bunny7 Posted December 24, 2009 Share Posted December 24, 2009 Yeah Leighton you sure are... let him sweat... hang in... don't let it be easy for him.... Link to comment
Leighton Posted December 24, 2009 Author Share Posted December 24, 2009 I don't think there's anything he can say anymore, really. He's said he was sorry for hurting me, he didn't mean to fall for someone else, he still cares about me, always will, etc. What's left you know? That's how I'm looking at it. Of course hearing him say that jumping into someone else's arms right away was a mistake, would be nice too. But I don't expect it. Link to comment
bunny7 Posted December 24, 2009 Share Posted December 24, 2009 Leighton: My ex never messed around, but having said that he has serious issues... which are probably worse than infidelity... I still think you have to make him think about the reprecussions he has caused and that he may lose you. Honestly you are worth more than that. Bunny Link to comment
Leighton Posted December 24, 2009 Author Share Posted December 24, 2009 He has already lost me. I told him that. So I'm not sure what he wants. A few days after we broke up, I was clingy and I cried to him, etc. He told me we needed some space. I've been giving him space, and now he's calling me. Well one week of space isn't enough! Link to comment
Leighton Posted December 24, 2009 Author Share Posted December 24, 2009 I think I'm gonna call him and tell him to leave me alone forever. That way I don't have to expect texts or anything anymore. Link to comment
bunny7 Posted December 24, 2009 Share Posted December 24, 2009 No it isn't enough, and take it from me.... been there, done that.. guys are dumb that way (probably get alot of flack for that) but they really are... the younger the sillier (sorry but true) he needs time to think about the hurt he's causing. Link to comment
Leighton Posted December 24, 2009 Author Share Posted December 24, 2009 Well now I know why it feels so crappy to break NC. I called him. To see what he wanted. He said he hadn't heard from me in a while and wanted to see how I was. We had a decent conversation up until I asked him how his new girlfriend was. I asked if they were dating and he said "they were talking". Then we argued. I said he had no compassion for me for what he was doing. He said he did, but for once he was putting his feelings ahead of mine. I told him to never contact me again. If he ever does contact me again, I know not to break NC. Lesson learned. Link to comment
bunny7 Posted December 24, 2009 Share Posted December 24, 2009 Ah Hun, so sorry... he is a thoughtless guy for what he's said.... I know it hurts... Whatever you have to do, talk to us here, call a friend, just feel better.... what an idiot and thoughtless person.... Link to comment
Leighton Posted December 25, 2009 Author Share Posted December 25, 2009 Nope. Honestly.. I am very upset. But you know what? He hasn't ruined my progress. Now I'm even stronger to do NC, and now I know to never break NC again. Link to comment
bunny7 Posted December 25, 2009 Share Posted December 25, 2009 Good Girl... thats the kinda talk I wanna hear! Link to comment
Leighton Posted December 25, 2009 Author Share Posted December 25, 2009 Thanks Bunny! xox Link to comment
bunny7 Posted December 25, 2009 Share Posted December 25, 2009 You are soo welcome... nice Xmas eh? Link to comment
Leighton Posted December 25, 2009 Author Share Posted December 25, 2009 Oh I know right? I am f'n ecstatic lol! Hope yours is better than mine! Link to comment
bunny7 Posted December 25, 2009 Share Posted December 25, 2009 Nah, I'm kinda alone, first Christmas without him, but he can kiss my cookies.... I won't be hungover tomorrow, he will be Link to comment
Leighton Posted December 25, 2009 Author Share Posted December 25, 2009 Haha woo... one of these days, they'll pay for everything! Link to comment
bunny7 Posted December 25, 2009 Share Posted December 25, 2009 Yeah well, what they say hopefully is true eh? "They reap what they sow" Link to comment
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