shy bf, how can i help?

[i3estherdyson]

the guy i am dating is really shy. his shyness makes him so hesitant i don't know what do! i had to kiss him first... because he "said"... well, blushed and said he was too shy to do what he wanted to and if you hadn't noticed, i am really outgoing. the kiss was really nice and sweet. i really liked it, but how do i help him be less shy around me? i really like him, but his shyness makes it a little awkward.

[bruinsy81]

Keep initiating things until he gets comfortable,eventually he will.You have to take shy guys by the hands sometimes.

[livinginsbi]

be patient with him and go at his pace. You will probably have to initiate quite a bit at first, just make sure it's what he wants to do, don't over power him. He'll eventually take the lead.. and yeah, I'm speaking from experience.

[GoneCrazy]

Yup patients is one of the keys after awhile he will get comfterable with you he'll let you in his little shel and wont be to shy.