ramcoro Posted November 13, 2009 Share Posted November 13, 2009 Im getting a colonoscoy done, and i have had anal sex before. Would the doctor know this? And if he did would he tell my family? Because i am only 16 The last thing i need right now is for my family to know that ive had sex with another guy. ... please does somebody have advice? Link to comment
celiaroae100 Posted November 13, 2009 Share Posted November 13, 2009 surely there is patient doctor confidentiality?? Link to comment
Searnid Posted November 13, 2009 Share Posted November 13, 2009 Um, I don't know if it could be detected for sure... Maybe if you did it recently, since it causes some damage since it isn't exactly made to do that, hehe. I'm just assuming here since I'm not sure but I'd prob say that you'll be fine. Link to comment
lana111 Posted November 13, 2009 Share Posted November 13, 2009 i dont know, but i if anything they might be able to tell if something was in there, but i HIGHLY doubt they can specifically tell youve had anal sex... and there is confidentiality so either way i think youre good. Link to comment
shes2smart Posted November 13, 2009 Share Posted November 13, 2009 We have some medical professionals (I know there are a couple nurses here) on the board. I'm not one of them. But I'd wait until one of them posts to your thread for a definitive answer. Link to comment
Sunny1607307996 Posted November 13, 2009 Share Posted November 13, 2009 The doctor cannot tell your parents anything. It's against doctor/patient confidentiality rules. Your doctor will ask your parents to leave the room for the procedure and then you will be able to ask him in private. A good doctor will also give you any important news in private, away from your parents. They probably wouldn't be able to tell you've had anal sex specifically unless you have it right before the procedure. Although, I do have to wonder why you are getting a colonoscopy and if you are having trouble with that part of you body, maybe you should refrain from anal sex for a while. I know that it's embarassing, but you should probably talk to your doctor about how to have safe anal sex. Trust me, a doctor has heard and seen everything! They are not allowed by law to tell your parents something medically confided in them. But if you're worried about if the doctor will be able to tell if you've had anal sex in the past, the answer is NO! Link to comment
Day_Walker Posted November 13, 2009 Share Posted November 13, 2009 I would imagine if the anal sex was recent then the doctor would be able to tell. Potentially if there was some damage done by lack of lubrication that would probably be detected. There is a doctor-patient confidentiality that he/she cannot disclose the results of your exam unless you have given express permission to that person. Since you are a minor your state might require the doctor to tell your parents if he feels there is something wrong so it is hard to say for sure. Link to comment
comfyshoes Posted November 13, 2009 Share Posted November 13, 2009 I'm one of those nurses that shes2smart was talking about. I'm not sure of the legal age of consent for where you are, but i can see absolutely no reason for the medical team to even care if you have had anal sex. Obviously, we have a duty to report and signs of what appear to be abuse, but is not the case for you, so again i see no reason to tell your parents and any attempt to do so would be a breach of confidentiality. And trust me, no one on the medical team will care about your sexual practices or habits. We see all sort of things. Anal sex is pretty low on the list of "freaky" stuff we come accross. Link to comment
hexaemeron Posted November 13, 2009 Share Posted November 13, 2009 I'm one of those nurses that shes2smart was talking about. I'm not sure of the legal age of consent for where you are, but i can see absolutely no reason for the medical team to even care if you have had anal sex. Obviously, we have a duty to report and signs of what appear to be abuse, but is not the case for you, so again i see no reason to tell your parents and any attempt to do so would be a breach of confidentiality. And trust me, no one on the medical team will care about your sexual practices or habits. We see all sort of things. Anal sex is pretty low on the list of "freaky" stuff we come accross. Well, if he's a minor of 16, couldn't abuse still be a consideration? Link to comment
dangletsbang Posted November 13, 2009 Share Posted November 13, 2009 Well, if he's a minor of 16, couldn't abuse still be a consideration? Yeah, this is what I was going to bring up. In the medical office I work for, we don't have many minors..but on the occasional under age patient we're required to let the patient's parents know what is going on with the patient and what type of procedures, etc will go on. Link to comment
ramcoro Posted November 13, 2009 Author Share Posted November 13, 2009 I guys bring up more then even I thought about. What if they think im being abused? which im not. That would be even worse! espicially if they call in social services or something. Oh god. And i only had anal sex once, and it was about 2/3 months ago. Link to comment
hexaemeron Posted November 13, 2009 Share Posted November 13, 2009 I guys bring up more then even I thought about. What if they think im being abused? which im not. That would be even worse! espicially if they call in social services or something. Oh god. And i only had anal sex once, and it was about 2/3 months ago. Once ever? You SHOULD be okay on the detection front. Link to comment
ramcoro Posted November 13, 2009 Author Share Posted November 13, 2009 If there is ANY way that they could know. I don't know if i could go through with it. My problems with m colon aren't THAT bad. It could wait intill im 18 if i just said so. Link to comment
hexaemeron Posted November 13, 2009 Share Posted November 13, 2009 If there is ANY way that they could know. I don't know if i could go through with it. My problems with m colon aren't THAT bad. It could wait intill im 18 if i just said so. No, if it was once, you should be fine. Our understand was that you had.. well, more. Link to comment
ramcoro Posted November 16, 2009 Author Share Posted November 16, 2009 No, if it was once, you should be fine. Our understand was that you had.. well, more. hahaha ahhh noooo ... lol .... it was actually a bad experiance i actually thought i was straight for like two weeks! lol Link to comment
hexaemeron Posted November 16, 2009 Share Posted November 16, 2009 hahaha ahhh noooo ... lol .... it was actually a bad experiance i actually thought i was straight for like two weeks! lol Maybe you're just not a bottom. That happens too. Link to comment
ramcoro Posted November 16, 2009 Author Share Posted November 16, 2009 maybe... but maybe not ... i don't know its confusing Link to comment
hexaemeron Posted November 16, 2009 Share Posted November 16, 2009 maybe... but maybe not ... i don't know its confusing It's an acquired taste. The first time I did it, I swore I'd never do it again. The next time wasn't as bad, but still didn't feel right... the third time DING DING DING, it was quite nice. You never know. Link to comment
ramcoro Posted November 17, 2009 Author Share Posted November 17, 2009 It's an acquired taste. The first time I did it, I swore I'd never do it again. The next time wasn't as bad, but still didn't feel right... the third time DING DING DING, it was quite nice. You never know. HAHAHAHAHAHA ... was it with the same guy?!?!?! lol Link to comment
hexaemeron Posted November 17, 2009 Share Posted November 17, 2009 HAHAHAHAHAHA ... was it with the same guy?!?!?! lol Yeah, we had a sexual relationship from 6th grade until graduation from high school. Link to comment
ramcoro Posted November 17, 2009 Author Share Posted November 17, 2009 Yeah, we had a sexual relationship from 6th grade until graduation from high school. 6th grade!!! WOOW .... thats kinda young isnt it? Link to comment
hexaemeron Posted November 17, 2009 Share Posted November 17, 2009 6th grade!!! WOOW .... thats kinda young isnt it? Nothing else to do in rural ohio! Link to comment
ramcoro Posted November 17, 2009 Author Share Posted November 17, 2009 wow i didnt even know i was gay that young, let alone accepeted it, let alone had courage to do something about it. Link to comment
hexaemeron Posted November 17, 2009 Share Posted November 17, 2009 wow i didnt even know i was gay that young, let alone accepeted it, let alone had courage to do something about it. It just sort of happened. And then I knew I liked it. And he knew he did, but he didn't WANT to be gay (he's probably bi) so he has had gfs and wives and then boys on the side. Link to comment
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