semaj612 Posted September 17, 2009 Share Posted September 17, 2009 Yesterday I was riding the bus home and sparked up a conversation with the girl sitting next to me. When we got off I had a good ways to walk and she offered me a ride home. When we were getting close I thought and felt I had the opportunity to ask her for her number. But i chickened out. So today i ride the bus home (different time than yesterday) and notice that she was on the bus. She offered me a ride home again. I thought to myself this was my time. I hve a second chance. On the walk back to her car, she was talking about her roomate how she lends her car to her ex bf. Then the one im walking with says, I wouldnt lend my car to my bf let alone my ex bf. So i put that in context that she was dating somebody. So once again, i didnt ask her for her number. Do you think I should have still gone for it even though she might of had a bf, and their is hopefully another chance, most likely not, but if their is should I ask for it? Link to comment
Podtastic Posted September 17, 2009 Share Posted September 17, 2009 Gotta agree with Shuttlefish there - don't think she was mentioning a guy to try and get you to back off, but more to show the level of trust relating to the car thing. Go for it. Link to comment
pinkelephant Posted September 17, 2009 Share Posted September 17, 2009 in my conv, i'd indirectly ask if she has a bf... but if there isn't a good opening for such a q, then i'd just go for it. i'm a girl and no i don't mind being asked out (respectfully). period. whether i have a bf or not at the time is irrelevant. goodluck! Link to comment
dangletsbang Posted September 17, 2009 Share Posted September 17, 2009 all I can say is GO FOR IT! Next time [if there is one!] ask her out for coffee or something, she's definitely interested because she offered twice to take you home - if she does have a boyfriend, she'll let you know. But don't let it scare you..there's a chance. good luck! Link to comment
dr_styles Posted September 18, 2009 Share Posted September 18, 2009 in my conv, i'd indirectly ask if she has a bf... but if there isn't a good opening for such a q, then i'd just go for it. I've found that to be harder than I thought, though my luck is non-existent to begin with I suppose. On one occasion I was asking the girl how she couldn't anything get anything to do on some nights (it was a lot more casual than it might read here), and her response was pretty muted, meant nothing. On another occasion/girl, I asked what her friends and family thought about her working on a Sunday (this is what the convo was about at the time) and again, it's like she just shut up, like a few-word non-answer. I'm like you now, I kinda imagine "what if, somehow, I get another chance". Hmm, do you even think about deliberately tweaking your timings a bit to try and deliberately run into her? (sounds desperate, but I'll admit to thinking that a lot). But yes even with apparent chances I would instantly stop and prop on hearing things like that. Link to comment
Lonewing Posted September 19, 2009 Share Posted September 19, 2009 Sh has a boyfriend... Well, you tried, at least! But now you know, and knowing is half the battle... As they say, you have to pick and choose your battles...and this one is half lost, at this point. The odds are not in your favor to win the second half either... Link to comment
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