PinkLotus Posted August 18, 2009 Share Posted August 18, 2009 ....or is at lest regretting their decision to break up and or missing you? I'd like to hear the experiences of those who have been through it, thanks! Link to comment
-Sanguine- Posted August 18, 2009 Share Posted August 18, 2009 my ex broke up with me, and we both knew there were still feelings there - it was complicated he came round to where I worked, everytime I was there he texted me and eventually he just told me he wanted me back then, he hurt me, so we ended it again and he never tried contacting me or being near me so that's when I knew it was over so, I guess in my experience it's been pretty obvious that he missed me or didn't miss me. Link to comment
SRTtoZ Posted August 18, 2009 Share Posted August 18, 2009 Actually she never gave me signs she wanted me back...We were NC for 2 months...When I eventually Broke contact she was very short with me...not asking me a lot of questions...saying a lot of dumb/silly things. Just not her usual self when we were dating...well one night I wished her happy bday via txt and she called me...we talked and I think thats when she finally gave in to how much she missed me...Then after that one day out of the blue she txted me how much she missed me...and ever since we been going back out on dates and IM LOVIN' it. Its like it was before we broke up, but so much better because I learned from what I did...and I am a better person now for it. Moral of the story...You may not know she is missing you. Sometimes you have to just take a chance. Link to comment
HouseKitten Posted August 18, 2009 Share Posted August 18, 2009 When I was in the period of time where I missed my ex a lot he mentioned that I often brought up good times we'd had together, more than I usually would. It's tricky though because everyone's different, some people hide their true feelings, others can't help letting them spill out. Link to comment
SDEGirl Posted August 18, 2009 Share Posted August 18, 2009 well when my ex started telling me how much he missed me and wished I was the one he married I kinda got the idea that he wanted me back. and hell no I didn't take him back..... Link to comment
Brisby Posted August 18, 2009 Share Posted August 18, 2009 I had an ex who didn't seem to care when we broke it off mutually (I pushed for it more because he treated me badly and I wanted out), but once we had been away from each other for awhile and I began to see other people, he started to act upset. We were still friends after the breakup and he was leaving on a plane out of the country. I agreed to let him stay at my place for a night so he didn't have to drive hours or stay in a hotel and I let him leave a bunch of his stuff with me so he wouldn't have to sell it or pay a lot for storage since he didn't know when he would be back. While he was staying with me, he laid it on pretty thick. Saying really nice things that he never said while we were together. When I talked about the guy I was seeing, he wanted to know more about him and of course, he disapproved of him for arbitrary reasons. Like I was seeing someone from a larger city and according to him, you have to watch out for guys from big cities because they have loose morals.....and he himself was from a huge city so I laughed when he said that. He also admitted to me that he had strong feelings for me which I guess is a pretty BIG sign that he wanted me back. lol Link to comment
faithful14 Posted August 18, 2009 Share Posted August 18, 2009 when my ex's were coming back...the biggest giveaway was when i started receiving phonecalls, text messages, or even AIM's to talk about little things. And the contact was more frequent over time, they were more flirty, they started talking about the past and reminiscing on the good times. Link to comment
annie24 Posted August 18, 2009 Share Posted August 18, 2009 signs? i've had exes just come out and say they wanted to get back together. i'd warn against looking too deeply into friendly contact/emails/etc. they could just want you as a friend, not looking to get back together. Link to comment
PinkLotus Posted August 19, 2009 Author Share Posted August 19, 2009 Of course they could just want to be friends. Or they could want more. Not everyone is so bold as to just come out and say it. Thank you for the responses, guys. I totally think my dude wants me back; but he's gonna have to be bold and come out with it if he wants another chance. Right now he's just texting and/or calling every day.... even at 4am!! That right there started cluing me in that he might be pushing instead of pulling. LOL Either way though, I'm going to be GREAT! Link to comment
annie24 Posted August 20, 2009 Share Posted August 20, 2009 good for you. i turn my phone on silent so i don't have to deal with 4 AM calls, by the way. Link to comment
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