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Yes, it would for me. Provided that we had talked about it and I'd expressed my needs in a non-threatening way, possibly more than once.

 

It's simply that although I am a very giving person, for me one 'proof' of someone's interest is if it occurs to them to 'want me' without being asked. If I always initiate, I eventually begin to feel that they aren't interested. (And I think that's often the case, though men can become lazy when they are comforatble in a relationship).

 

I've pondered this long and hard but it's simply a need I have, and not an unreasonable one. At a very basic level, it's like someone never offering to do the dishes! lol

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Yes, it would for me. Provided that we had talked about it and I'd expressed my needs in a non-threatening way, possibly more than once.

 

It's simply that although I am a very giving person, for me one 'proof' of someone's interest is if it occurs to them to 'want me' without being asked. If I always initiate, I eventually begin to feel that they aren't interested. (And I think that's often the case, though men can become lazy when they are comforatble in a relationship).

 

I've pondered this long and hard but it's simply a need I have, and not an unreasonable one. At a very basic level, it's like someone never offering to do the dishes! lol

 

I couldn't agree with this more! It's not that I need my girl to want sex I just want her to want to have sex with me.

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