Ex date emailed me after 2 weeks LC & 1 week NC

[Girl wants EX]

Hi

 

You have probably seen my other thread in which I talked about my case:

Dated a guy for 4-5 weeks and got dumped by him. We did everything together and lots of passion during first 2 weeks.

The reason he dumped me it's because I was too easy! too compromising! too much chasing after him!!!

 

So surprisingly, after I sent very few "cool" texts and emails during first 2 weeks after broke up and went NC for 1 week, tonight he emailed me, asked me 4 quesitions about how I am doing and if I have met new people, at the end he said he would love to get some news from me... Yes, he was the one mentioned that "we can be friends after some time pass"

 

I think LC/NC works finally, but I'm a bit confused that he always replied my emails 1 week after they were sent, and only replied to 1 of 3texts... he really looked like he doesn't want anything more from me, and now why he brings up these questions upfront?

Is it possible he is worried I'm dating someone else? Do you guys think I have attracted him again?

[Yodabell]

I think he's not interested. If he leaves it that long to reply to your emails and only sometimes replies to your texts, then he's just being friendly. You guys only dated for a few weeks, so you would be best to just forget about him and get on with the rest of your life.

[yellow_sweater]

I completely agree with Yodabell. It really, really sounds like he's just being friendly (or nosy, or both). Considering the length of time he takes to respond... yeah, I just don't see much of an interest there.

 

Sorry bout that.

YS

[Girl wants EX]

I consider about your opinions and absolutely don't expect much.

 

But I think there is something more than that... because I hided my profile on the website where we got to know each other since last sunday, and he logged on sunday evening, and he sent me that email monday evening, asking a lot of questions about my life ---the last question is, "Have you met new people?"

He probably found out that I "disappeared" from that website and doubted I have found someone new and having dates.

 

If he was just being friendly, I don't think he would ask me if I met new people... What do you think?

I think he is at least curious about what's going on in my life, but may be not enough to take a further step, such as calling or texting me...

Plus, he probably expected me to beg him or to care more about him than I actually do.

[yellow_sweater]

You know, it's really impossible to tell. Personally, I think you're reading too much into the situation, reconstructing a version of events that you don't really know anything about. However, you might be totally right! Who knows.

 

In the end, does it matter? Why do you care? Do you want him back?

 

YS

[Girl wants EX]

Yes and No.

I have moved on, I enjoy being alone very much, I have found myself after broke up; but I still kind of think there can be more between me and him... We have similar values and hobbies.

 

Anyway... just focus on myself, and see what will hapeen...

 

Thanks!