LAYAAN Posted February 4, 2009 Share Posted February 4, 2009 I've posted about him in this thread. A quick recap - He is raised in the US, I'm here for studies. We were matched through EH. His comment "oh so ours will be a green-card marriage" (x2) has left me wondering if I should go ahead with this person or not. But most other superficial things match and he said "A lot of our interests and what we want in other person is matching and I think we are compatible." Its been a week now since we last talked. I was gonna email/call him past Sunday, but I realized that it was Superbowl so I didn't proceed. I want to talk and get it over with, this way or that way. He has suggested that we should meet. I said "I'm okay with meeting but before that I would like to talk one more time." He said "thats fine." So, I was wondering what would be a decent way to put it out there what I'm feeling? I'm not pushing things to work. If its not meant to be, its not meant to be. But I don't like to just close the match abruptly. This is what I'm planning on saying "I was wondering if you are looking for a US raised/US based girl? B'coz your comment "ours will be a GC marriage" has thrown me off and made me wonder." What do you think? Thanx Link to comment
madmarten Posted February 4, 2009 Share Posted February 4, 2009 Well, if he was trying to be funny it was in bad taste. Tell him you don't need a sugar daddy and that there are other ways to get your green card and see what he says. I don't like what he said per se, but it is a way of testing you. Link to comment
grymoire Posted February 4, 2009 Share Posted February 4, 2009 Just ask him what he meant by that comment. We don't know if he was just teasing you... but it sounds very insulting actually. Link to comment
laisla Posted February 4, 2009 Share Posted February 4, 2009 yup i think you can ask him that. it might bother you if you don't ask. Link to comment
LAYAAN Posted February 5, 2009 Author Share Posted February 5, 2009 thanx guys. I emailed him earlier today to see if he was available to talk. He hasn't replied yet to my email. We'll see what happens. Link to comment
LAYAAN Posted February 6, 2009 Author Share Posted February 6, 2009 He replied to my email and said that distance would be an issue for him. I replied saying "Thank you. I appreciate your replying to my email. I understand your concerns. They are real. I sincerely wish you good luck. Take care." Thank you everyone for your replies and support. I appreciate it. Link to comment
grymoire Posted February 6, 2009 Share Posted February 6, 2009 He replied to my email and said that distance would be an issue for him. I replied saying "Thank you. I appreciate your replying to my email. I understand your concerns. They are real. I sincerely wish you good luck. Take care." Thank you everyone for your replies and support. I appreciate it. oh man.... sorry to hear this Tinu but at least you got closure before getting involved. Link to comment
LAYAAN Posted February 6, 2009 Author Share Posted February 6, 2009 oh man.... sorry to hear this Tinu but at least you got closure before getting involved. yes, when I didn't hear from him for 2 days, I got an idea that he probably didn't want to go ahead. But I agree with you. Link to comment
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