Pall Wall Posted February 2, 2009 Share Posted February 2, 2009 At my workplace the video store, I still feel attracted to my co-worker's daughter, Wendy. There is also a customer girl, a cute blonde named Amber. She's my #1 coolest customer, I've becomed attracted to her because I've had a dream about her twice. The dreams were not pornographic, they were of intimacy, of her sitting in my lap, her arm around me, and her holding the sides of my face, with her lips an inch away, building suspense in me. Now there is another customer that I ring up every once in a while, she's about 25 and looks exactly like Jennifer Morrison on "House." I've been attracted to her from the moment I first layed eyes on her. But she is a married woman. And yet there is AAAAANOTHER customer who's a married woman who has amazing gorgeous long flowing hair, her hair is Amy Adam's hair in "Enchanted" only prettier. Each one of these lovely ladies, they smile and respond very pleasantly to me when I see them or ring them up. But a part of me feels bothered by it, like it's not cool to be attracted to "Multiple Women," not to mention that I still love my former gf. Is this not a good thing, or does it just mean I'm "In Love with being in Love?" Link to comment
SpaceGray Posted February 2, 2009 Share Posted February 2, 2009 Love, doubt it, you don't even know them that well. infatuation? yes. Link to comment
Pall Wall Posted February 2, 2009 Author Share Posted February 2, 2009 Pardon my misleading with the last part. I know I'm just infatuated with them. The "In Love with being in love" part came out wrong. I guess I meant in the sense of that I just love being attracted to another, so I guess you can exclude that last part, lol. But to be infatuated with several girls at once, is that not right? Link to comment
Kinetics Posted February 2, 2009 Share Posted February 2, 2009 Yes it is natural. And I bolded that to be sure. I'm sure it's all nice and awww if you told your girlfriend that you're only attracted to her and her alone, but that's only good if she is dating you. But when you aren't with anyone, it's also called 'having lots of options' Don't feel guilty! Link to comment
Dev007 Posted February 2, 2009 Share Posted February 2, 2009 To answer your question, there is nothing wrong with being attracted to more than one person at a time. However, it sounds to me like these customers might just be being nice to you by smiling, but if you actually have conversation with them, and it goes well, you might want to try taking one on a date. Stay away from the married one, of course Link to comment
CaptainPlanet Posted February 2, 2009 Share Posted February 2, 2009 You should be attracted to all sorts of women. Link to comment
KG Posted February 2, 2009 Share Posted February 2, 2009 Completely normal....don't sweat it! Link to comment
ForeverZero Posted February 3, 2009 Share Posted February 3, 2009 It's happened to me before so yeah I'd say it's quite normal Link to comment
Nutz Posted February 3, 2009 Share Posted February 3, 2009 Yes it is natural. And I bolded that to be sure. I'm sure it's all nice and awww if you told your girlfriend that you're only attracted to her and her alone, but that's only good if she is dating you. But when you aren't with anyone, it's also called 'having lots of options' Don't feel guilty! This says it all. If you're only ever attracted to one person then there's probably something wrong with you. Link to comment
bmwm3 Posted February 3, 2009 Share Posted February 3, 2009 its normal.. i see attractive woman all day long... there everywhere.. Link to comment
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