cant get a date for the life of me

[lostforwords]

Allright here it goes im really starting to doubt myself here i usually am an extremely shy guy but recently started asking people out that I enjoy being around but within the past 4 days ive been rejected like 6 times three times by the same girl but i really enjoy this girls company and im not quite sure she is just lettin me down easy or telling the truth because she doesnt want to hurt me or she really had stuff to do because everytime i ask her the next day something always comes up and i told her that if she doesnt wanna hang out just to let me know so i stop asking and she says we will but again im almost postive its gonna be put off any advice from poeple out there cause i have know idea what to do

[Athena]

Hey Lost,

Many people don't have the courage to say they are not interested. I will toss this out, but please decide for yourself what is the best thing to do from here, because all I have it was you've told us, and not the benefit of knowing her.

 

If a guy who I was interested in spending time with, asked me out and I was honestly busy, I would suggest an alternative time that we could hook up. You've asked her three times, three times she is busy, three times she has NOT offered an alternative. My gut is to move on.

 

Don't let the turn downs for your invites discourage you. Keep meeting new people and keep asking people out!

 

-A

[sweetapples]

lostforwords,

 

Keeping asking people out, you got courage man. I am an extremely shy person myself and only started approaching girls recently because I made it my new years resolution to quit being a so scared. I have racked up 20 approaches so far over the past 6 weeks, however the majority of girls I approach ain't single. I'm just going to keep at it and eventually I'll meet someone.

 

A.W.